Suing An Ex-Girlfriend

[MAJMark]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA and NC

During the course of our relationship, I loaned my ex-girlfriend over $9300. She lives in NC; I live in CA. I have some documentation to support my case (bank statements, credit card statements, an email from her acknowledging the debt). Is there anything I can do short of a lawsuit, such as arbitration? Where would this arbitration occur? Would I have to appear in NC?

If I do pursue a lawsuit, based upon what I have stated, do I have a decent chance of winning? And would I have to appear or could a lawyer represent me?

Thanks in advance.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

 

[racer72]

Is there anything I can do short of a lawsuit, such as arbitration?

Arbitration is available in some places, you would have to inquire at the court house where you intend to take action. You will still file a lawsuit then both parties would agree to the arbitration.

Where would this arbitration occur?

North Carolina if you want her to appear.

Would I have to appear in NC?

Yes.

If I do pursue a lawsuit, based upon what I have stated, do I have a decent chance of winning?

50:50 more or less.

And would I have to appear or could a lawyer represent me?

You will have to appear.

Now you have to ask if it is worth persuing a case. Things such as travel costs, food and lodging are not recoverable. Plus you would have to try to collect from across the country.

 

[MAJMark]

Thanks

I appreciate your response.

Will this lawsuit have to be filed in the county in which she resides?

If so, will I be best served utilizing a law firm in her county?

As far as documentation, I know a signed agreement acknowleding the debt would be optimal, but based upon what I have, bank statements showing money transfers, emails from her acknowleding the debt and promising payment, will that be legally sufficient proof?

And thanks again.

 

[stephenk]

In which state did the loan occur?