Myspace or hers???

[JustWondering2]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia
Ok, Here goes...Last year I got myself mixed up in an "Update War" on Myspace. My husbands ex and I got into a battle that went on for about 3 months. Both of our profiles were marked as private so all I could see of her page was her picture and update information, and the same for her. She would say something snotty about me and me about her and on and on. Childish, I know! Anyway, sometimes I would unlock my page because
I just knew she wouldn't be able to resist the temptation. She never let me down. Everytime she would read one of my blogs she'd post an update on her page to "answer" my blog. I NEVER mentioned her real name OR screen name @ any point. I made generalized comments about everything. I did use words or comments that I knew if she read, she'd get mad. She would fire right back @ me as well, but only on her update. She never unlocked her page. Anyway, after several months(about 3) She asked to call a cease fire. I did and she did as well. She and I decided to try to get along. We did for a while (about 6 months), but now she hates me again. LoL! During that six months we were comment for comment, sickening sweet to each other. She even wrote comments such as "Love ya Like a Sister" on my page.(We even accepted each other as friends on our profiles) I am an honest person and will admit to using the update to get at her, but only because I knew by her response, that I was getting under her skin, but when we decided to try to get past all of the childish stuff, I quit. Since she's mad at me again, she now says she still has all of the generalized comments that I made before. She says she printed them off and kept them and that she has talked to our local P.D. She says that she was told she has 10 years to "Use them against me." I told her to do what she feels is needed. It shows me just how dedicated she was in having a friendship, to hear she kept that stuff. I printed off the "good stuff" that we wrote between us, but let the bad go. My question is if I just wrote generalized comments, and Never sent anything to her directly or said her name or screen name, Can she use that stuff? Also, since we "tried" to be friends and I stopped making ANY statements, IF she can use the generalized statements, will they hold up in court since she forgave me anyway? I'm done with the childish games, but she is now threatening me with the past...Like I said though, I told her to do what she needed to do, because I won't be blackmailed with it. Any advice you can give would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for listenin regardless! Have a Great Day!

[Alex23]

Have you apologized for writing what you wrote? Often that's all a person wants, or is entitled to.

[JustWondering2]

Yes, I have apologized...in writing...on her page. The problem is she's mad at me about something totally different now, but is holding this stuff over my head kinda like leverage. I genuinely tried to be her friend, but I really don't think she did. She wanted information related to getting "her" kids away from my husband....her ex boyfriend. He left her to be with me and though she claimed to forgive and forget for the children involved, I sincerely think she had hopes of me being an idiot....She asked me to feed her info. About my husband so that she could take their kids from him, LoL, she said he'd never have to know. I Love my husband and his kids, we've had custody of them for about a year now, and I of course told her I would NEVER go behind his back and Lie to help her do such a thing. Anyway....LoL! Thank You for the response. I appreciate the feed back. I don't think she has a legal leg to stand on, but I'm curious just the same... Thanks again

[Antigone*of*Greece]

Originally Posted by JustWondering2

Yes, I have apologized...in writing...on her page. The problem is she's mad at me about something totally different now, but is holding this stuff over my head kinda like leverage. I genuinely tried to be her friend, but I really don't think she did. She wanted information related to getting "her" kids away from my husband....her ex boyfriend. He left her to be with me and though she claimed to forgive and forget for the children involved, I sincerely think she had hopes of me being an idiot....She asked me to feed her info. About my husband so that she could take their kids from him, LoL, she said he'd never have to know. I Love my husband and his kids, we've had custody of them for about a year now, and I of course told her I would NEVER go behind his back and Lie to help her do such a thing. Anyway....LoL! Thank You for the response. I appreciate the feed back. I don't think she has a legal leg to stand on, but I'm curious just the same... Thanks again

Just ignore her - do not communicate with her. You really need to grow up.