What happened to trust??

What is the name of your state? AR I read all these post and everyone seems to know so much and I don't know how?? This is something the average person goes in to knowing nothing about and even after reading and trying to understand,so much of it just goes over my head. I am so confused. I always thought you could trust your lawyer to do things right, but we found out with our first one you can't. Now we have a new one that we really thought we trusted, but some of the things on here make me doubt him. Most of these posts make it seem like a stressful thing to do, but most seem to fly on through once they start. I just keep trying to beleive what the lawyer is telling us, but I wonder more and more. Is this a normal thing to do?? Do we all just worry about too much and not take it a step at a time or is it just me??