What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? WI
I hope I'm putting this in the right forum. Anyway, I, together with my family recently went to a ski resort. My wife rented me a snowboard and I lost it through theft. What happened is I left the snowboard together with other people's board and ski outside of the resort restaurant since it is not allowed inside the said premises. Went out and the board wasn't there anymore. I immediately reported it to the rental office and was advised that if the board wasn't found I will not get the $10 security deposit that my wife paid early on that's it.
The next day I received a call from the resort's security office telling me that I would need to pay for the board since it was not returned to them, so I went back again to the resort to tell the security guy in person what happened. I asked to review the CCTV footage since I placed the board near one of the cameras. We saw the board being taken away by an unidentified man 30mins after I left it. I told the security guy if I can talk to the owner in person but he refused saying the owner doesn't deal with the customer instead he promised me that he'll ask the owner or the manager to lower down the initial asking price which is $250, the guy then "went and ask the owner" and told me that the owner will be willing to settle for $200. I try to haggle to lower the price a bit more but the guy said he'll let me know so I went home.
A couple of days later I received a call saying he's from the resort security department and is "a cop" informing me that I should pay the $200 and then proceeded to threaten me that if I don't pay I shouldn't be surprised if a cop shows up at my door and arrest me for theft. When I replied that I shouldn't be arrested for theft since I didn't steal anything they resorted to saying they will file a restitution for the board in which my name will be included. I did some reading and I think that it doesn't hold much ground and also read that there is a law against threatening or accusing someone of a crime so I know what they did is not right.
The problem is I have a unique situation and explain it to them thoroughly, I am not allowed to work right now because of visa restrictions. I don't want to put the burden of paying for the stolen snowboard to my wife when she already paid for everything and it's not her fault that the board was taken, so I am trying to settle the amount for less than a $100 because I did some research on how much it cost and found out that I can get a board brand new online for $250 or less and I'm trying to reason out with the man that since the board was already used a lot of times probably less than a 100 bucks seems fair, besides I only have $100 in my savings.
I really don't know what to do. I don't want my wife to pay for it even though she can and be done with this. She has done a lot for me financially and I don't think it's fair for her to take up the responsibility of paying for it. I couldn't sleep at night thinking if this could send me to jail or would I be paying more on what the resort is asking if they went ahead with the restitution claim, like court fees, lawyers fee, etc. I am willing to go to jail if needed be and knowing from my own experience that having no money increases the likelihood of jail time, I fully accept the consequence of my clumsiness but I just want to know if there's anything else I can do besides trying to haggle for the price since the resort management is not willing to take my offer. This is putting a lot of strain on my family, having two daughters to take care off while thinking of what will happen if this problem is not solve. I couldn't focus on my role as a stay-at-home father having this dilemma going through my head 24hours a day. I need help...
P.S. I asked for a copy of the rental agreement so I would know to what extent my responsibility goes as far as stolen boards are concern. I don't remember signing anything about snowboard rentals nor receiving a copy of it. They said they will send me one this coming week. I still haven't talk to the owner nor the manager its always people from the security department who always seems eager to handle this matter.
I hope I'm putting this in the right forum. Anyway, I, together with my family recently went to a ski resort. My wife rented me a snowboard and I lost it through theft. What happened is I left the snowboard together with other people's board and ski outside of the resort restaurant since it is not allowed inside the said premises. Went out and the board wasn't there anymore. I immediately reported it to the rental office and was advised that if the board wasn't found I will not get the $10 security deposit that my wife paid early on that's it.
The next day I received a call from the resort's security office telling me that I would need to pay for the board since it was not returned to them, so I went back again to the resort to tell the security guy in person what happened. I asked to review the CCTV footage since I placed the board near one of the cameras. We saw the board being taken away by an unidentified man 30mins after I left it. I told the security guy if I can talk to the owner in person but he refused saying the owner doesn't deal with the customer instead he promised me that he'll ask the owner or the manager to lower down the initial asking price which is $250, the guy then "went and ask the owner" and told me that the owner will be willing to settle for $200. I try to haggle to lower the price a bit more but the guy said he'll let me know so I went home.
A couple of days later I received a call saying he's from the resort security department and is "a cop" informing me that I should pay the $200 and then proceeded to threaten me that if I don't pay I shouldn't be surprised if a cop shows up at my door and arrest me for theft. When I replied that I shouldn't be arrested for theft since I didn't steal anything they resorted to saying they will file a restitution for the board in which my name will be included. I did some reading and I think that it doesn't hold much ground and also read that there is a law against threatening or accusing someone of a crime so I know what they did is not right.
The problem is I have a unique situation and explain it to them thoroughly, I am not allowed to work right now because of visa restrictions. I don't want to put the burden of paying for the stolen snowboard to my wife when she already paid for everything and it's not her fault that the board was taken, so I am trying to settle the amount for less than a $100 because I did some research on how much it cost and found out that I can get a board brand new online for $250 or less and I'm trying to reason out with the man that since the board was already used a lot of times probably less than a 100 bucks seems fair, besides I only have $100 in my savings.
I really don't know what to do. I don't want my wife to pay for it even though she can and be done with this. She has done a lot for me financially and I don't think it's fair for her to take up the responsibility of paying for it. I couldn't sleep at night thinking if this could send me to jail or would I be paying more on what the resort is asking if they went ahead with the restitution claim, like court fees, lawyers fee, etc. I am willing to go to jail if needed be and knowing from my own experience that having no money increases the likelihood of jail time, I fully accept the consequence of my clumsiness but I just want to know if there's anything else I can do besides trying to haggle for the price since the resort management is not willing to take my offer. This is putting a lot of strain on my family, having two daughters to take care off while thinking of what will happen if this problem is not solve. I couldn't focus on my role as a stay-at-home father having this dilemma going through my head 24hours a day. I need help...
P.S. I asked for a copy of the rental agreement so I would know to what extent my responsibility goes as far as stolen boards are concern. I don't remember signing anything about snowboard rentals nor receiving a copy of it. They said they will send me one this coming week. I still haven't talk to the owner nor the manager its always people from the security department who always seems eager to handle this matter.
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