premature child now blind dr at fault

Hi my name is Catrina.I live in oklahoma (delcity near okc)
first i would like to say i am sorry for my spelling it is alful. ok I got pregant with my son and around 3 or 4 months i started having problems. I was loosing blood and having preterm labor. When i first lost all the blood i lost a lot a lot! the hospital really did nothin just a ultrasound and sent me home. I went in and out of the hospital and was put on meds to stop labor. I started to dilate and was told there was a sergury that could stop this if done early anough. the dr i was seeing said he would not do this sergury in fear of loosing my baby i went to a new dr. I started to going in to labor big time! was put in the hospital and on meds to stop labor again i was let out and would come back with labor. then it got really bad. i spent days and days in the hospital. the dr said he would do the sergury but it should of been dune earlier he and the other dr should of did this earlier it would then be a really really good chance my baby would not be preterm. he told my husband and i that after the sergury if i had no labor pains i would be let go. well i went in and had sergury and the dr looked at me and was shocked and said you are dialated past a 5 .would you like me to still do the sergury. I said yes i want to keep my baby in as long as i can. He did the sergury and i still was having labor pain. then out of the blue he sent me home on meds to stop labor which i was on almost all my labor and was not working the only thing that would stop my labor was the meds threw iv.(cant take in a pill) I told him i was scared and was still having labor pain and did not wanna go home . never less i was sent home and went in to labor late that night (early moring) I woke up with the bag of water the baby was in hanging out of me. I went to the hospital and the dr said something to the point i should of never let u go home. I was on state medical and it think that is why i was let to go home. My son was born 2 pounds 1 oz and soon dropped to 1 pound 10 oz. he faught for his life . he had majior problems while in the nicu. when the dr came and seen me he said if we would of done the sergury earlier he would most likely been not early.here is where the story takes a wird turn. when my son was in the nicu he had kindeny failure the meds to make them work took all his calcuim away from his bones causing a bone disease. well the day befor he was let out of the hospital he had laxis sergury on his eye (for rop) we started taking him to children's hospital in okc and started seeing a new dr for his care after the hospital stay. The bone disease as we been told by his dr cause broken bones by touch(no brusing or red marks or signs of child abuse) he ahd a lunge disease so i told the new dr he needed a chest x ray he came up with 3 hair line cracked ribs(again no brusing or red marks) she said it was child abuse and had both my children taken away from us. My son was put in to foster care and i faught to get both them back my daughter was given back shortly(4 days) and my son stayed in care around 30 days. while in dhs care he had a rash that was bleeding.(2 weeks ) the dr gave him a cheap over the couner rash stuff for this) was taken off his meds all at once for his kindenys(not a little at a time) this caused with drawls and him to scratch him self badly. they missed all his eye dr appointments . I called everyday reminding them if he missed them and did not get the sergury he needed there was a chance he could go blind. They still did not take my child to the eye dr appointments.The foster mom told the dr that there was some thing wrong with his eye's they was doing wird things and he was had stopped responding to things. the dr said" this is not important" my son did go blind in there care. (proven it was with in there care)
I am so mad all of this has happened to my family and i am running out of time he was born may 15th 1999(almost 2 years) first is there anything we can do because i was not given the treatment i should of been on a timely maner while pregant resulting in my son being born early? and second what about his dr saying i abused my child(proven not so even the dhs worker who tolk my kids is writting a book about this) and what about her refusing to not do anything about his eye's(he was on a hmo and needed a dr referal to go to his dr)
if you can help my family that would be great we have over came so much pain my son (dallas) cant even see light.
please e mail me at splrott@aol.com
thanks catrina davidson

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