What is the name of your state?Alabama. My husband and I were married on October 22, 2004. I am 19 years old, he is 20 years old. We decided to marry due to the fact that i became pregnant. From the start, he didnt want the baby. He wanted to wait and see if I miscarried before we got married, but to save face, I insisted we go ahead. Immediately, he began verbal and physical abuse. Not hitting, but pushing and shoving etc. He didnt want the baby unless it was a boy. Well, on January 15, 2005 I left him and moved back home with my parents. I want to get a divorce and I want full custody of the baby, because I feel he isnt responsible enough to care for a baby. If he treated me the way he did, how would he treat a defenseless child? I found out it is a boy, and now suddenly he wants the baby and wants to be involved in his life. I am wondering if I could use getting half of everything he has as incentive to go along with my demands in the divorce. I dont know if there is a time limit on how long a couple has to be married before everything is legally half mine. I don't care about his house and vehicles, and I dont want money from him. I just want full custody and I want him to leave me alone. I would just like some advice on what to do because I am in the dark about it. Thank you.