after final divorce;can I be not divorced

What is the name of your state? Va.
I have a final decree of divorce, but now my (ex-husband) is saying we are not really divorced. I got re married two months ago. The month before the divorce was final there was a little interlude of a sexual nature between us. Does this mean that we really are not divorced? H got his set of papers and he kept our kids when I went to get remarried and have my honeymoon, none of it was a secret. Let me know.

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Originally Posted by rosie5940

What is the name of your state? Va.
I have a final decree of divorce, but now my (ex-husband) is saying we are not really divorced. I got re married two months ago. The month before the divorce was final there was a little interlude of a sexual nature between us. Does this mean that we really are not divorced? H got his set of papers and he kept our kids when I went to get remarried and have my honeymoon, none of it was a secret. Let me know.

My response:

Has your ex-husband (notice I said "ex") been nippin' at the Moonshine bottle again?

Your ex-husband gives the phrase, "Sealed with a kiss" a whole new meaning! I guess he thinks that people can also get married by merely screwing!

It's a good thing you divorced him. He's a dolt. I can only hope that you married someone smarter; but, since you probably married someone from Virginia, I'm not holding my breath on that one.

By the way, who got the trailer in the divorce?

IAAL

The month before the divorce was final there was a little interlude of a sexual nature between us

DAMN I love that sentence. I'm going to start using it when the Shetland Pony comes out

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IAAL

It was not that stupid of a question. My girlfriend's lawyer (in GA) told her that having such "relations" at the wrong time could invalidate the divorce agreement. I told her I couldn't believe it, but I suppose there is some bizzare scenario where it might be a concern.

It was such a stupid question it didn't garner a serious reply.

the difference between your friend's situation and this poster's is that in this poster's situation the divorce was finalized. In your friend's situation it was the divorce agreement.

Once the divorce is finalize, signed by a court and recorder you can have sex with your ex, his/her buddies, a shetland pony or the whole damn 5th army and it doesn't change the fact that you are divorced. PERIOD!

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My response:

Some people are destined to live in trailers, and think like trailer people, all the rest of their lives.

IAAL

Sie Señor....now do I hear an AMEN BURDDER!!!