What is the name of your state? Florida
My husband is a Virginia resident, mine is Florida. We got married just last week while he was visiting me with permission from his probation officer in Va. He beat me up a couple of times while severely intoxicated and ended up in jail for two weeks charged with battery and resisting arrest. I was able to bail him out so he could return to Va in the hopes of not getting violated.
I've overlooked a lot of his violent behavior in the hopes of rehabilitating him, and I've spent a LOT of money getting him and keeping him out of trouble. I am now seeing the light in that he is NOT going to change and certainly does not appreciate any efforts on my part to "save his ass" (pardon the language).
I am a computer programmer with a 12-year career who has never been in any trouble and he has a 20-year criminal record and can't even get a job.
The issue that is ending this marriage is because I had the opportunity to hear the recordings of the conversations he had with his family while in jail, one in which he said that "... she put me here and next time I'll break her neck." Needless to say... I am seeking annulment at this time and he seems to have beat me to it with help from his family. I have a few questions:
Does it matter which one of us files the annulment?
Does it matter which state it is filed in?
Does he have any rights to my personal property?
Is there any way to collect the money I spent on him and his family? (at least $2000 or more).
Are there any other options that are available to me that I just don't know about?
Thanks for your time and attention,
Divamissx
My husband is a Virginia resident, mine is Florida. We got married just last week while he was visiting me with permission from his probation officer in Va. He beat me up a couple of times while severely intoxicated and ended up in jail for two weeks charged with battery and resisting arrest. I was able to bail him out so he could return to Va in the hopes of not getting violated.
I've overlooked a lot of his violent behavior in the hopes of rehabilitating him, and I've spent a LOT of money getting him and keeping him out of trouble. I am now seeing the light in that he is NOT going to change and certainly does not appreciate any efforts on my part to "save his ass" (pardon the language).
I am a computer programmer with a 12-year career who has never been in any trouble and he has a 20-year criminal record and can't even get a job.
The issue that is ending this marriage is because I had the opportunity to hear the recordings of the conversations he had with his family while in jail, one in which he said that "... she put me here and next time I'll break her neck." Needless to say... I am seeking annulment at this time and he seems to have beat me to it with help from his family. I have a few questions:
Does it matter which one of us files the annulment?
Does it matter which state it is filed in?
Does he have any rights to my personal property?
Is there any way to collect the money I spent on him and his family? (at least $2000 or more).
Are there any other options that are available to me that I just don't know about?
Thanks for your time and attention,
Divamissx