wuselino1412
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? florida
I have been married for over three years and have been with my husband for over 5 years. I have been very unhappy for a long time and I have no feelings towards him besides the fact that I don't want anything bad happen to him. I have asked for separation and divorce many times over. He is such a controller when it comes to money that he controls the rental accounts (they are my rentals I had years before we got married). we are both on those accounts and he doesnt take money out but he is better at managing money than me so i never had a problem with him doing so. He also has a savings account but never put my name on it because he said i dont know how to control money and there is a sum of over 15k in there which was mainly possible because we were able to save money hence to the rental income etc. we are both working and he makes maybe $500 more than me a month and we just bought a house six months ago we both live in. He is now at the point where he wants to manage my paycheck too because he says i am not good with money. and he isnt lying about it but if its up to it i can save like anyone else can. We also have a house that is currently empty and that we bought it about three years ago before we got married and lived in it until we bought this new one and only his name is on it because back then i didnt have my green card yet. We only owe about 45k on it and its worth over 100k.
I offered him to separate that he could keep the old house and i wouldnt want any money from it etc and that id take my rentals back and id pay for the new house (we bought with fha so there really isnt any asset to it yet, mainly debt). He refuses to move out and already broke my laptop in his rage (never put a hand on me) but hes threatened to destroy the rentals because hes done work on them and how i would find my pets dead in the backyard. afterwards he said sorry and that he only said it because he was mad at me. I just want him gone and i know since one of my renters is being evicted right now id have a hard time keeping up the new house but he is refusing to let me live in it by myself and wont move to the other one. At this point i need money out of the savings to get them evicted and remodel it and pay taxes until i can rent it out again. he wont just hand me over the money of course. Any advice?
I have been married for over three years and have been with my husband for over 5 years. I have been very unhappy for a long time and I have no feelings towards him besides the fact that I don't want anything bad happen to him. I have asked for separation and divorce many times over. He is such a controller when it comes to money that he controls the rental accounts (they are my rentals I had years before we got married). we are both on those accounts and he doesnt take money out but he is better at managing money than me so i never had a problem with him doing so. He also has a savings account but never put my name on it because he said i dont know how to control money and there is a sum of over 15k in there which was mainly possible because we were able to save money hence to the rental income etc. we are both working and he makes maybe $500 more than me a month and we just bought a house six months ago we both live in. He is now at the point where he wants to manage my paycheck too because he says i am not good with money. and he isnt lying about it but if its up to it i can save like anyone else can. We also have a house that is currently empty and that we bought it about three years ago before we got married and lived in it until we bought this new one and only his name is on it because back then i didnt have my green card yet. We only owe about 45k on it and its worth over 100k.
I offered him to separate that he could keep the old house and i wouldnt want any money from it etc and that id take my rentals back and id pay for the new house (we bought with fha so there really isnt any asset to it yet, mainly debt). He refuses to move out and already broke my laptop in his rage (never put a hand on me) but hes threatened to destroy the rentals because hes done work on them and how i would find my pets dead in the backyard. afterwards he said sorry and that he only said it because he was mad at me. I just want him gone and i know since one of my renters is being evicted right now id have a hard time keeping up the new house but he is refusing to let me live in it by myself and wont move to the other one. At this point i need money out of the savings to get them evicted and remodel it and pay taxes until i can rent it out again. he wont just hand me over the money of course. Any advice?