New York State
Lets, just get this out of the way... I was the blonde idiot that believed her boyfriend of two years when he said he was still legally married to his wife because he was afraid of losing everything including his children. Stupid, I know.
Firstly, his wife is a paralegal at a NYC based law firm.
For two years I'm guessing she thought we just worked together (He owns the company, I manage his business), not wanting to deal with the "baby mama drama" I was always very polite to her but kept conversation to an absolute minimum. We must have spoken a hand full of times over the course of two years. Her house is in Pennsylvania and he only goes there on the weekends to "see his children" and is in NYC for the rest of the week.
This week after me asking him to have her hand over all the company documents for tax purposes (I'm guessing this is what infuriated her), he called me frantically stating that she knew about us and was out for blood. He stated she looked at his phone bill and saw how much we've spoken and that's what made her look deeper.
Since then she has:
Hacked his phone and asked for the SIM card to have someone in her office pull records (not my concern but is it legal?)
Looked up my medical records and history
Looked up my background and criminal records
Claims that she has people "looking into me"
All using company resources. I'm not sure what she is planning to do with this information, I understand she is angry, but it is a violation of my privacy. My question is, is it legal for her to use company/legal resources to look into me for personal reasons? What can I do to get her to stop?
Lets, just get this out of the way... I was the blonde idiot that believed her boyfriend of two years when he said he was still legally married to his wife because he was afraid of losing everything including his children. Stupid, I know.
Firstly, his wife is a paralegal at a NYC based law firm.
For two years I'm guessing she thought we just worked together (He owns the company, I manage his business), not wanting to deal with the "baby mama drama" I was always very polite to her but kept conversation to an absolute minimum. We must have spoken a hand full of times over the course of two years. Her house is in Pennsylvania and he only goes there on the weekends to "see his children" and is in NYC for the rest of the week.
This week after me asking him to have her hand over all the company documents for tax purposes (I'm guessing this is what infuriated her), he called me frantically stating that she knew about us and was out for blood. He stated she looked at his phone bill and saw how much we've spoken and that's what made her look deeper.
Since then she has:
Hacked his phone and asked for the SIM card to have someone in her office pull records (not my concern but is it legal?)
Looked up my medical records and history
Looked up my background and criminal records
Claims that she has people "looking into me"
All using company resources. I'm not sure what she is planning to do with this information, I understand she is angry, but it is a violation of my privacy. My question is, is it legal for her to use company/legal resources to look into me for personal reasons? What can I do to get her to stop?
