MrsSSimpson
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? CA
I have filed for divorce, and we are currently renting a house. We had verbally agreed beforehand on separation of belongings, and also verbally agreed that I would stay in the house as I would have my 3 kids (2 from a previous relationship), and he agreed he would move.
However, since being served the papers (I guess making it reality), he says he's not rushing to move, that he's going to take his time. He works late until 8 or 9pm, and goes "out" on the weekends coming in between 2-4am. I think that although we're divorcing, that this is just spiteful and disrespectful, and I expressed that on top of it all, I'm uncomfortable with him just coming in and getting in the bed with me because he's defiant that it's his bed too.
Last night I slept on the couch, but went to bed and woke up so angry that *I* am the one sleeping on the couch because I am the one uncomfortable. It's as if it's my problem, because I filed for divorce - which is due to him flirting and propositioning my sister for sex! His getting in the bed, and knowing he's planning to take his sweet time moving out, totally disgusts me. It infuriates me to think that if I want peace, and begin my mental healing process from this marriage that I may have to just take my kids and move because he's not doing so fast enough - not to mention that he could not afford to even rent the house alone, but I can and that was the plan.
Sorry for the long story - but is there something that I can do?
I have filed for divorce, and we are currently renting a house. We had verbally agreed beforehand on separation of belongings, and also verbally agreed that I would stay in the house as I would have my 3 kids (2 from a previous relationship), and he agreed he would move.
However, since being served the papers (I guess making it reality), he says he's not rushing to move, that he's going to take his time. He works late until 8 or 9pm, and goes "out" on the weekends coming in between 2-4am. I think that although we're divorcing, that this is just spiteful and disrespectful, and I expressed that on top of it all, I'm uncomfortable with him just coming in and getting in the bed with me because he's defiant that it's his bed too.
Last night I slept on the couch, but went to bed and woke up so angry that *I* am the one sleeping on the couch because I am the one uncomfortable. It's as if it's my problem, because I filed for divorce - which is due to him flirting and propositioning my sister for sex! His getting in the bed, and knowing he's planning to take his sweet time moving out, totally disgusts me. It infuriates me to think that if I want peace, and begin my mental healing process from this marriage that I may have to just take my kids and move because he's not doing so fast enough - not to mention that he could not afford to even rent the house alone, but I can and that was the plan.
Sorry for the long story - but is there something that I can do?