can I service my so-called hubby from my state?

[sharus654]

What is the name of your state?Connecticut
I married in May of 04 (in Virginia). I left after 1 1/2 weeks of marriage (he had an ex that he never really parted with) His mother was the one that had set-up the whole thing from the dress/ tux to the place of marriage etc... I had no say neither did her son. We both didn't want to do it, but his mother is a hound... I am back home with my parents he is somewhere in the world. I finally got a lawyer that would help me serve him with divorce papers from this CT since I never made VA my permanent residence. Mind you I never received anything from him, he got it all, spousal support everything. What else can I do to make my life easier because I want to move on with someone that I actually want to spend the rest of my life with?

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Your story doesn't ring true. If he got spousal support then you are already divorced or file for divorce.

Now, what's the REAL story?

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Please provide all the facts, here are your previous 2 threads.
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=292188 https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=289029
Have you tried the military locator to locate your husband?
You will have to divorce not annulment.
If he is deployed, you will have to wait to serve him with a divorce petition.
Have you applied for your military ID etc. ?
You do realize that VA has non cohabitation laws and that adultery is a violation of UCMJ? Have you contacted JAG or his command?

 

[stephenk]

"We both didn't want to do it, but his mother is a hound"

You got married only because of his mom? It wasn't those great benefits from being a Navy wife?

 

[BelizeBreeze]

"We both didn't want to do it, but his mother is a hound"

You got married only because of his mom? It wasn't those great benefits from being a Navy wife?

awww hell stephen, I thought at least one of you would make a comment on the TITLE of this thread

 

[rmet4nzkx]

awww hell stephen, I thought at least one of you would make a comment on the TITLE of this thread

I seriously thought of making comment on the title but since she is from CT and not NJ thought I'd let it be.

 

[zippysgoddess]

Well I can't resist!

I am sure you could service him out of state, if you lips or legs are long enough!

 

[HomeGuru]

try phone sex**************..

 

[zippysgoddess]

I've also hear that some people really get off with cybersex!

 

[rmet4nzkx]

I've also hear that some people really get off with cybersex!

That's why new keyboards are so cheap and easy to replace

 

[Rushia]

That's why new keyboards are so cheap and easy to replace

Ummm....Ewwww!!! I wish that I didn't have such a vivid imagination.

 

[zippysgoddess]

So that explains why I keep having to replace keyboards, bet that is also why the Enter key sticks so often!