What is the name of your state? ny
My STBE filed for divorce. after not hearing anything for 8 months i requested a conference date. During this conference I was ordered to pay all costs including the ex's fees, associated with the divorce. I asked my lawyer to rescind my request (i couldn't afford all the costs) and was told that the opposing lawyer can file a motion for a default judgement, where the judge can force the divorce. Can a judge force you to divorce, even when the judgement is totally lopsided. I make more than my ex and she pays child support for 1 child that lives with me. She has been living on her own for 3 years with no responsibility towards any marital finances, yet the judge reminds me that any funds i use are marital funds, but she does not say this to the STBE... I need a little clarification on what rescinding a divorce request can really do to me. The STBE ex just ought a 50k car on a supposedly 30k salary, but my lawyer says that makes no difference, i make more so I have to pay...
I am looking for a new lawyer because I don't feel comfortable with the explanations that I get...
My STBE filed for divorce. after not hearing anything for 8 months i requested a conference date. During this conference I was ordered to pay all costs including the ex's fees, associated with the divorce. I asked my lawyer to rescind my request (i couldn't afford all the costs) and was told that the opposing lawyer can file a motion for a default judgement, where the judge can force the divorce. Can a judge force you to divorce, even when the judgement is totally lopsided. I make more than my ex and she pays child support for 1 child that lives with me. She has been living on her own for 3 years with no responsibility towards any marital finances, yet the judge reminds me that any funds i use are marital funds, but she does not say this to the STBE... I need a little clarification on what rescinding a divorce request can really do to me. The STBE ex just ought a 50k car on a supposedly 30k salary, but my lawyer says that makes no difference, i make more so I have to pay...
I am looking for a new lawyer because I don't feel comfortable with the explanations that I get...