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wondering27
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What is the name of your state? AL
Long story short....wife cheated, husband caught her, wife moved out, husband eventually let wife move back in when she wanted. Okay, it's been 3 months since the wife's been back home. She still has her own checking account, still has her mail forwarded to her parents' home, had a cell phone on her husband's family plan (which was the cheapest deal), but now has a new cell phone and won't even give the husband the new number or tell him what cellular company it's with. To me, this sounds like an issue of "if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, looks like a duck, it just might be a duck" meaning that it sounds like the wife still has some secrets she doesn't want the husband to know about. But when the husband confronts her about all this, she tells him, "she's just not ready to make another committment to him right now."
Okay, after a wife has been caught red handed having an affair, yet the husband still lets her move back in and gives her another chance, why the heck would SHE be the one not ready to commit?? That sounds like a lame excuse.
And every time the husband tells her they might as well go ahead and divorce, she starts this manipulating routine of crying and begging him not to divorce her, yet she barely even talks to him at night when they're home together, much less have sex or show ANY affection whatsoever toward him.
So, my question is, since it's obvious the wife is just as miserable as the husband, why would she be so against divorce? Could she be buying time for some unknown reason? If and when divorce happens, they will more than likely go to court over custody of their baby boy. Do you think this has something to do with it?
Long story short....wife cheated, husband caught her, wife moved out, husband eventually let wife move back in when she wanted. Okay, it's been 3 months since the wife's been back home. She still has her own checking account, still has her mail forwarded to her parents' home, had a cell phone on her husband's family plan (which was the cheapest deal), but now has a new cell phone and won't even give the husband the new number or tell him what cellular company it's with. To me, this sounds like an issue of "if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, looks like a duck, it just might be a duck" meaning that it sounds like the wife still has some secrets she doesn't want the husband to know about. But when the husband confronts her about all this, she tells him, "she's just not ready to make another committment to him right now."
Okay, after a wife has been caught red handed having an affair, yet the husband still lets her move back in and gives her another chance, why the heck would SHE be the one not ready to commit?? That sounds like a lame excuse.
And every time the husband tells her they might as well go ahead and divorce, she starts this manipulating routine of crying and begging him not to divorce her, yet she barely even talks to him at night when they're home together, much less have sex or show ANY affection whatsoever toward him.
So, my question is, since it's obvious the wife is just as miserable as the husband, why would she be so against divorce? Could she be buying time for some unknown reason? If and when divorce happens, they will more than likely go to court over custody of their baby boy. Do you think this has something to do with it?
