What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NEW JERSEY. CAN MY EX. WIFE COLLECT ON MY EMPLOYERS DEATH BENIFITS FOR ME? ALSO DOE'S SHE HAVE ANY CLAIM ON MY FUTURE SOCIAL SECUITY PAYMENTS WHEN I RETIRE? WE HAVE BEEN DIVORCED FOR 25 YEARS,SHE'S BEEN LIVING WITH THE SAME MAN FOR THOSE SAME YEARS. BOTH IN NEW JERSEY AND FLORIDA. I'VE BEEN REMARRIED FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS. ANY HELP WITH ANSWERS WOULD BE GREAT!! THANK YOU