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sweetcfcaligal
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What is the name of your state? California
I recently received divorce papers at the beginning of December from my husband (which he left in my screen door - they were not delivered to me by way of ceritified mail).
There are many things that I do not agree with on them and have circled those things to have changed but mainly I received one sheet that had 2 post it notes asking me to sign and date back to July 2003. He filed in June 2003 but I was not served - at least once a month I asked him when I would be served, his only answer was that we did have a case number and I should receive the divorce papers in December. I kept telling him that I needed to be served because in the courts eyes, how would they know that I agreed to the divorce, wanted the divorce or was even alive. This single document basically says that I was served in July 2003 and I am asked to sign and date it that way - but I NEVER was. I am not going to sign my name and lie and because of that, he says that our divorce will not be final until June 2004.
My instincts tell me to have his mediator redo the paperwork and state that I received the divorce papers in December 2003 (or January 2003 - once they rewrite them) and wait another 6 months. Why do you think I am being asked to lie about this, is there something he can get from me or do to me?
I recently received divorce papers at the beginning of December from my husband (which he left in my screen door - they were not delivered to me by way of ceritified mail).
There are many things that I do not agree with on them and have circled those things to have changed but mainly I received one sheet that had 2 post it notes asking me to sign and date back to July 2003. He filed in June 2003 but I was not served - at least once a month I asked him when I would be served, his only answer was that we did have a case number and I should receive the divorce papers in December. I kept telling him that I needed to be served because in the courts eyes, how would they know that I agreed to the divorce, wanted the divorce or was even alive. This single document basically says that I was served in July 2003 and I am asked to sign and date it that way - but I NEVER was. I am not going to sign my name and lie and because of that, he says that our divorce will not be final until June 2004.
My instincts tell me to have his mediator redo the paperwork and state that I received the divorce papers in December 2003 (or January 2003 - once they rewrite them) and wait another 6 months. Why do you think I am being asked to lie about this, is there something he can get from me or do to me?