What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Calif.
Here is the background:
I have married for 25 years and we have two kids 18 and 15
I have been on SSDI for the past 7 years due to "degnerative bone disease". It's not getting better
I receive approx $1000 per mo. and our kids receive $271 each. My wife makes an income of approx $60k with bonuses.
We have 2 homes and one will barely sell to pay off the mortgage and our credit cards. The other is currently worth what we owe. (There goes $80k in equity).
I really don't see the marriage repairable. The argueing and blaming over our past decisions has torn the family apart and I am also to blame, it's not just her.
We have basically lost every $$$ over this housing recession. There is nothing left, except our two kids and our personal items. But, we still have great credit.
The kids will not live with me and resent me because I'm too hard. She's too easy. The kids have made things even worse(it's their job)
Where does someone like me with disabilities stand on divorce, child support, ??alimony??in the courts and public opinion.
I want what's right for myself AND my kids.
When you don't have any money,and not a whole lot of income, how do you retain an attorney to "fight" your side when the other spouse makes $60k and has access to her employer's attorneys?
Anyone care to give me some insight?
Thank you in advance.
Here is the background:
I have married for 25 years and we have two kids 18 and 15
I have been on SSDI for the past 7 years due to "degnerative bone disease". It's not getting better
I receive approx $1000 per mo. and our kids receive $271 each. My wife makes an income of approx $60k with bonuses.
We have 2 homes and one will barely sell to pay off the mortgage and our credit cards. The other is currently worth what we owe. (There goes $80k in equity).
I really don't see the marriage repairable. The argueing and blaming over our past decisions has torn the family apart and I am also to blame, it's not just her.
We have basically lost every $$$ over this housing recession. There is nothing left, except our two kids and our personal items. But, we still have great credit.
The kids will not live with me and resent me because I'm too hard. She's too easy. The kids have made things even worse(it's their job)
Where does someone like me with disabilities stand on divorce, child support, ??alimony??in the courts and public opinion.
I want what's right for myself AND my kids.
When you don't have any money,and not a whole lot of income, how do you retain an attorney to "fight" your side when the other spouse makes $60k and has access to her employer's attorneys?
Anyone care to give me some insight?
Thank you in advance.