What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California.
Firstly, I'm asking this for my grandmother.
My grandfather already passed away about eight years ago and they wrote a will that excluded all their children because they couldn't take it anymore. None of them cared, all of them only cared about their money. They took and took from my grandparents and never gave back. Even when my grandfather was sick and needed shots, none of them were willing to pay money for it. My mom (who is their daughter-in-law) paid for everything.
My mom is taking care of everything. My mom pays the bills, buys the food, pays for my grandmother's medicine and they do absolutely nothing. The only thing they did come was when they were able to leech things off them.
One of my aunts even broke up my family by leading my father astray so that he'll be kicked out of the family. It was 7 years before I saw him again at my grandfather's funeral. In fact, when my grandmother lied and told her my dad told us everything she did to us, she hasn't even once showed up at our doorstep again. Not a call, a letter, nothing. And now, even before my grandmother passed away, California law allowed her to see the will the will they wrote. She was my grandfather's favorite too. He gave her everything until he finally realized that she was after nothing but his material assets.
My grandmother is terribly afraid of what she'll do. She's after the house, that's for certain. In fact, during my grandfather's funeral, her husband was overheard asking her if she was ready to fight with her older brother and she responded in affirmative. She has the rest of her younger brothers under her control too. They treat her more like the mother than they do my grandmother.
I'm sorry this is so long and rambly, but... I really need to know. My aunt is like 60+ since the youngest just reached 50. A little old to be disowned probably, but... when my grandmother is afraid she'll hold a lawsuit even though the will excludes them completely... I want her to have peaceful days without fear of her eldest daughter cooking up another devious plot to gain control of everything.
I've read some posts before and everyone was judgmental about why anyone would want to disown a child. When your child doesn't love you and only sees your death as a way to gain more money, well... Not that my grandmother has thought of it. In fact, they started talking about selling the house so that she can't get her hands on it, but... this is the house I grew up in... It means a lot to my brother and I... It's also the house my grandfather bought for my grandmother because she loved it and they lived here for so many years. I don't want all that to go away because greed controls the family.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Firstly, I'm asking this for my grandmother.
My grandfather already passed away about eight years ago and they wrote a will that excluded all their children because they couldn't take it anymore. None of them cared, all of them only cared about their money. They took and took from my grandparents and never gave back. Even when my grandfather was sick and needed shots, none of them were willing to pay money for it. My mom (who is their daughter-in-law) paid for everything.
My mom is taking care of everything. My mom pays the bills, buys the food, pays for my grandmother's medicine and they do absolutely nothing. The only thing they did come was when they were able to leech things off them.
One of my aunts even broke up my family by leading my father astray so that he'll be kicked out of the family. It was 7 years before I saw him again at my grandfather's funeral. In fact, when my grandmother lied and told her my dad told us everything she did to us, she hasn't even once showed up at our doorstep again. Not a call, a letter, nothing. And now, even before my grandmother passed away, California law allowed her to see the will the will they wrote. She was my grandfather's favorite too. He gave her everything until he finally realized that she was after nothing but his material assets.
My grandmother is terribly afraid of what she'll do. She's after the house, that's for certain. In fact, during my grandfather's funeral, her husband was overheard asking her if she was ready to fight with her older brother and she responded in affirmative. She has the rest of her younger brothers under her control too. They treat her more like the mother than they do my grandmother.
I'm sorry this is so long and rambly, but... I really need to know. My aunt is like 60+ since the youngest just reached 50. A little old to be disowned probably, but... when my grandmother is afraid she'll hold a lawsuit even though the will excludes them completely... I want her to have peaceful days without fear of her eldest daughter cooking up another devious plot to gain control of everything.
I've read some posts before and everyone was judgmental about why anyone would want to disown a child. When your child doesn't love you and only sees your death as a way to gain more money, well... Not that my grandmother has thought of it. In fact, they started talking about selling the house so that she can't get her hands on it, but... this is the house I grew up in... It means a lot to my brother and I... It's also the house my grandfather bought for my grandmother because she loved it and they lived here for so many years. I don't want all that to go away because greed controls the family.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?