What is the name of your state? nebraska
Have been married for 33 years. Can't do it anymore. Haven't been intimate since 1995. Live in seperate bedrooms not even speaking to each. He makes $60,000 and I have been mostly an at home mom only working full time for the last 5 years making now $25,000.
Yes I have a job but need to move out of this town. He has pension built up, a SS base, sick leave, health benefits after he retires & I have nothing but a small $140,000 401K at work. We have no debt & I know I will receive half of our assets which should equal about $350,000 which includes the 401K. I have no degree & am afraid to quit my job & move out of town or even ask him for a divorce as I"m afraid I will not be able to support myself & have something to retire on. I'm 57 & so is he. Yes I need to move out of this small town in the midwest that has held bad memories for me as I was sexually abused here as a child. What are my chances of getting some alimony for the rest of my life, especially in lieu of his pension. He has never been willing to discuss it with me as he always says it is HIS retirement. Is $1500.00 a month too much to ask for the rest of my life. Please help
Have been married for 33 years. Can't do it anymore. Haven't been intimate since 1995. Live in seperate bedrooms not even speaking to each. He makes $60,000 and I have been mostly an at home mom only working full time for the last 5 years making now $25,000.
Yes I have a job but need to move out of this town. He has pension built up, a SS base, sick leave, health benefits after he retires & I have nothing but a small $140,000 401K at work. We have no debt & I know I will receive half of our assets which should equal about $350,000 which includes the 401K. I have no degree & am afraid to quit my job & move out of town or even ask him for a divorce as I"m afraid I will not be able to support myself & have something to retire on. I'm 57 & so is he. Yes I need to move out of this small town in the midwest that has held bad memories for me as I was sexually abused here as a child. What are my chances of getting some alimony for the rest of my life, especially in lieu of his pension. He has never been willing to discuss it with me as he always says it is HIS retirement. Is $1500.00 a month too much to ask for the rest of my life. Please help