CuriouslyAboutL
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Connecticut
The story, I started dating my friend Mary around January of 2008. She had just broken up a guy she was with for 9 years. When he found out about us, he than proposed marriage to her. She wanted to marry me, I was not ready for this step after 3 months of dating. So, she left me, and got engaged. Two weeks later she shows up at my door step. She had broken it off with him and she wanted to know if I would give it another try. We got back to together and a few months later she moved in with me.
We had some issues, and she ended back with her ex. She started calling me again, and told me she was getting married in a month from that point. But I could tell she was not going to be happy.
We are closer to the legal questions:
She got married on a Friday and broke up with him on Monday and moved in with me. She filed for divorce the next day.
He is now threatening to subpoena all her family, my ex wife, my neighbors, etc. to cause us pain. We wants revenge. He has also told her that after the divorce is through, he plans on suing me for pain and suffering. Then sue her for the money to remove the tattoo'd ring on his finger.
She told me that she does not love him. and she told him that. He wants her back anyway?????
This whole thing sounds like one of those shows on TV.
Question: What can he really do legally. Can he create a circus in court, or is his attorney just trying to scare us??? Can he really try to claim I caused him pain and suffering? What exactly did I do to him. I didn't solicit his girl?
He has also stated to her, that he wants to kill me.
Question: Do I need to get a restraining order?
Question: I know that some of this is because he wants to get the marriage annulled. But isn't there another way?
Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
The story, I started dating my friend Mary around January of 2008. She had just broken up a guy she was with for 9 years. When he found out about us, he than proposed marriage to her. She wanted to marry me, I was not ready for this step after 3 months of dating. So, she left me, and got engaged. Two weeks later she shows up at my door step. She had broken it off with him and she wanted to know if I would give it another try. We got back to together and a few months later she moved in with me.
We had some issues, and she ended back with her ex. She started calling me again, and told me she was getting married in a month from that point. But I could tell she was not going to be happy.
We are closer to the legal questions:
She got married on a Friday and broke up with him on Monday and moved in with me. She filed for divorce the next day.
He is now threatening to subpoena all her family, my ex wife, my neighbors, etc. to cause us pain. We wants revenge. He has also told her that after the divorce is through, he plans on suing me for pain and suffering. Then sue her for the money to remove the tattoo'd ring on his finger.
She told me that she does not love him. and she told him that. He wants her back anyway?????
This whole thing sounds like one of those shows on TV.
Question: What can he really do legally. Can he create a circus in court, or is his attorney just trying to scare us??? Can he really try to claim I caused him pain and suffering? What exactly did I do to him. I didn't solicit his girl?
He has also stated to her, that he wants to kill me.
Question: Do I need to get a restraining order?
Question: I know that some of this is because he wants to get the marriage annulled. But isn't there another way?
Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
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