divorce to finacially survive?

What is the name of your state? Mo.
My wife and I are 51 and due to me paying our own health ins. and her conditions, i and spending 35% of my income on health costs.
we are considering a legal divorce to survive. we are living with no extras. any advice? joe

Chef:

Did the tax deduction for "extraordinary medical" not help enough.

I know that catastrophic illness can really drain and damage financial stability. My husband's back injury certainly did it's share of damage to our fiances.

I don't know this sounds more like an ethical question to me.

I can't say that I haven't considered "manipulating" the system as well.