What is the name of your state? Virginia
My husband had an affair. I caught him and he admitted it and if I needed, I could prove it. But he swears he's not seeing her anymore, though he's given me reason to suspect he's still lying. We're now separated and going to therapy but it doesn't look good.
In the Q&A section of this website it says for divorce in Virginia you must have a matter of grounds, which I do. BUT THEN IT SAYS (WITH NO EXPLANATION): "The grounds for divorce must be in existence when you file."
If we're separated, and we decide 6 mos from now to divorce, I certainly won't be able to prove he's still having the affair. Can this be right?
Also, if we get legally separated - how long before Virginia decrees the separation to automatically go to a divorce status (or does it ever?).
Thanks!
My husband had an affair. I caught him and he admitted it and if I needed, I could prove it. But he swears he's not seeing her anymore, though he's given me reason to suspect he's still lying. We're now separated and going to therapy but it doesn't look good.
In the Q&A section of this website it says for divorce in Virginia you must have a matter of grounds, which I do. BUT THEN IT SAYS (WITH NO EXPLANATION): "The grounds for divorce must be in existence when you file."
If we're separated, and we decide 6 mos from now to divorce, I certainly won't be able to prove he's still having the affair. Can this be right?
Also, if we get legally separated - how long before Virginia decrees the separation to automatically go to a divorce status (or does it ever?).
Thanks!