What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
PA (Philadelphia)What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
my husband walked out two years ago and will not help to pay for the mortgage or anything else for that matter. I had three girlfriends at the time he left, and will only reply to my emails in an abuse manner saying that I should be able to manage when the truth is I have been left in a house that is not sellable and is geared for a two income family.
Sorry, he had three girlfriends!
the thing is he is working in Iraq with Blackwater. He left to work there three years ago to earn money so that I could stop working overtime (or so I thought) also I started university during this time, which he said he would pay for. Well he did not and I had to leave. Basically, I had been managing the bills with the understanding that he would be providing vacations and pay for the car. It transpires that when he left it was to leave me = except I was not informed about this. Apparently he had gone on line prior to leaving and had joined a site for married people wanting affairs. Hence the three girlfriends. I really want to get the paperwork done and would be willing to settle for a reasonable amount toward the money owed for work done to the house just over two years ago. By the way this was done at his bidding, I would rather have put the money away. Also he earns a lot of money doing what he does. Now he has threatened to move to another state so that he "can get a divorce without my say so and not be responsible for anything".
PA (Philadelphia)What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
my husband walked out two years ago and will not help to pay for the mortgage or anything else for that matter. I had three girlfriends at the time he left, and will only reply to my emails in an abuse manner saying that I should be able to manage when the truth is I have been left in a house that is not sellable and is geared for a two income family.
Sorry, he had three girlfriends!
the thing is he is working in Iraq with Blackwater. He left to work there three years ago to earn money so that I could stop working overtime (or so I thought) also I started university during this time, which he said he would pay for. Well he did not and I had to leave. Basically, I had been managing the bills with the understanding that he would be providing vacations and pay for the car. It transpires that when he left it was to leave me = except I was not informed about this. Apparently he had gone on line prior to leaving and had joined a site for married people wanting affairs. Hence the three girlfriends. I really want to get the paperwork done and would be willing to settle for a reasonable amount toward the money owed for work done to the house just over two years ago. By the way this was done at his bidding, I would rather have put the money away. Also he earns a lot of money doing what he does. Now he has threatened to move to another state so that he "can get a divorce without my say so and not be responsible for anything".
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