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Originally Posted by shelbydutch I again want to thank LDJ for their reply. I was always under the understanding that forums were for people to seek help and/or give their opinions and/or help when needed. I have been told that I cannot do that in someone else's post here. For that, I am sorry but I don't understand. I have found that in doing this helps keep post going and might even help find the answer someone needs. So I am also posting here on my own post something else that I need help with. I am dying of cancer. I need to take care of my children and make sure that I have the means to do so. Because of this, I need to file for bankruptcy so that neither they nor my husband is responsible for my debt. I need his pension to continue with my cancer treatment and care of my children, etc. but I do not want any of them to have to pay for my debts. My hiusband's name is not on these debts (credit cards, of course) and I want to know if I can, 1) Receive my portion of my husband's pension now for my use and 2) If I can file bankruptcy on my debts to keep him or my children from paying for them. Thank you, in advance, to anyone that has help and/or an opinion. Also, I do not have a problem with someone continuing this post if it will help them. |
You can do both of these things but it gets quite complicated financially and legally.
Money in a retirement account cannot be taken in a bankruptcy. Money that is removed from the retirement account can.
If your husband simply removes the money from the account and gives it to you, the tax liability becomes his. Therefore the account has to be legally divided, and you really need an attorney to do that properly, and it takes time.
If you are on the home mortgage, or have any joint assets or liabilities with your husband, it could also complicate his life if you file bankruptcy.
Therefore, I truly recommend that you get a consult with a bankruptcy attorney
and a family law attorney regarding your debts and your plans, to see what is the best way to proceed.