divorce and protection

[raf0073]

What is the name of your state? georgia

hello forum,
i m in deep trouble and i need ur help desprately, i married to my husband about 7 years ago in Pakistan, i m from Pakistan and i am green card holder at the moment and i wil get the nationality after 2 years, before marriaging to me my husband was already married there in USA which he told me after getting married to and then he divorced her first wife and he has 4 children from her and he is paying expenses to her, my husband didnt love and care me at all and he started affair with other girl 5 years ago and when i asked about it he beaten and abused me, once i get pregnant but he forcefully oborted my baby and after then 1 year i get pregnant again and i give birth to daughter, she is now 4 years old, my husband use to abuse me and beat me and now i m fed up and i cant live with him and he threatens me if i want to leave then go but my daughter wil remain with he said my daughter wont go with me, i m very disturb and dont know where to go, he threatens me if i go to the court for divorce and custody of my daughter he will kill me or take away my daughter and send her anywhere where i cant find and get her and also takes away my passport and things like that, i cant go any lawyer bcoz he didnt allow me to go outside, i m forwarding it to the forum plzzzzzzz help me i dont have enough money to adopt a lawyer plzzz help me and reply wat can i do and wat r my rights.thanx.

 

[fairisfair]

odd, your use of the English language is stilted and hesitating, and yet then you use a high school texters lingo of bcoz, plzzzz and thanx.

I smell a troll.

 

[SHORTY LONG]

Read the following which will provide you with needed information in your situation:
http://www.usdoj.gov/usao/gan/vicwit/federaldomesticviolence.html

 

[SHORTY LONG]

odd, your use of the English language is stilted and hesitating, and yet then you use a high school texters lingo of bcoz, plzzzz and thanx.

I smell a troll.

Fairisfair, respectfully, I agree with your observation; and if it is a troll, i will rain hell on them,
which he or she will have wished they were being domestically abused!

 

[fairisfair]

Fairisfair, respectfully, I agree with your observation; and if it is a troll, i will rain hell on them,
which he or she will have wished they were being domestically abused!

that's cool shorty,

and nobody would wish that, not on themselves, or anybody else.

 

[SHORTY LONG]

Your absolutely right Fairisfair if the person is in his or her right mind!

It just burns my rear so to speak if it is a troll, because of the time and energy spent
in trying to help.

I am out, have a good one Fairisfair.

 

[raf0073]

its not the troll************** if you people cant help that fine but call it troll.... like if its a story or i m lieing.... i told u all thing what is true and whats happend with me..

 

[fairisfair]

its not the troll************** if you people cant help that fine but call it troll.... like if its a story or i m lieing.... i told u all thing what is true and whats happend with me..

did you even go to the site that Shorty provided for you??? Did you EVEN BOTHER to thank him?????

 

[Bruno]

A note of descent

I agree OP needs to research this forum and reference the link provided (http://www.usdoj.gov/usao/gan/vicwit/federaldomesticviolence.html). That said, I give OP the benefit of doubt on the grounds (personal experience) that younger generations in developing countries such as the Philippines, Pakistan, et al., do not have easy access to PCs and tend to rely on cell phones for Internet text-messaging communications. As a result, the habitual and prevalent adoption of terms akin to 'bcoz,' 'plz,' and 'thanx' among these users is quite understandable. D)

 

[Just Blue]

I agree OP needs to research this forum and reference the link provided (http://www.usdoj.gov/usao/gan/vicwit/federaldomesticviolence.html). That said, I give OP the benefit of doubt on the grounds (personal experience) that younger generations in developing countries such as the Philippines, Pakistan, et al., do not have easy access to PCs and tend to rely on cell phones for Internet text-messaging communications. As a result, the habitual and prevalent adoption of terms akin to 'bcoz,' 'plz,' and 'thanx' among these users is quite understandable. D)

I also don't think OP is a troll...If her story is true then she is most likely suffering from PTSD and that along with the ESL would explain her manner.


rafoo73 there is really nothing anyone here can do to help you, but since you have access to a computer I suggest you e-mail your local police dept Domestic Violence Unit and explain what is going on...They will send someone to assist you. Once you and your child are out of that situation they will also refer you to a DV shelter where you will be able to get other assistance and legal help with custody. Do not be put off by the thought of living in a DV shelter for a bit...They are for the MOST part nice places, with extensive resources to aide you in your recovery.
A lawyer can also assist you in any immigration issues you might have...you will NOT be deported for leaving this guy!!! I just want you to be clear on that!!

 

[nextwife]

Research local women's shelters and contact them. They may be able to arrange an escorted exit so you can safely leave.