What is the name of your state? Utah
My wife and I of four years have been seperated for almost 6 months now. When we met she had a 5yr old daughter and was pregnant. We quickly got married and the baby was born after the marriage. About 2 years into the marriage we seperated for a few months and she got pregnant again. We reconciled and got back together.
Now we are seperated again, and the divorce is coming. She moved a guy in the house we were renting not long after I left. I have been giving her $150 a week, but it is getting tough. I love all 3 girls like they were my own, and have got to see them once a week. I was taking them over night. But stopped doing that after an attorney advised me that because of their current living situation I could be accused of somthing I didnt do. So I was taking them only for a few hours a week.
Over the course of the marriage we have incurred a bunch of medical bills, most of which have been paid. But there is still about $2000 worth that have gone to collections. I know she is responsible for half of that, but I dont think she is working, and I know she cant pay. In order to pay them I decided to take a loan out on my 401k. So I gave her the form she needed to sign, and told her what it was for. This was over 3 weeks ago. Since then she wont answer my phone calls, and I have had not contact with her or the kids.
My friends and family are telling me to file for divorce and contest paternaty and walk away. Honestly I dont know if I can do that.
Any advice would be appreciated.
My wife and I of four years have been seperated for almost 6 months now. When we met she had a 5yr old daughter and was pregnant. We quickly got married and the baby was born after the marriage. About 2 years into the marriage we seperated for a few months and she got pregnant again. We reconciled and got back together.
Now we are seperated again, and the divorce is coming. She moved a guy in the house we were renting not long after I left. I have been giving her $150 a week, but it is getting tough. I love all 3 girls like they were my own, and have got to see them once a week. I was taking them over night. But stopped doing that after an attorney advised me that because of their current living situation I could be accused of somthing I didnt do. So I was taking them only for a few hours a week.
Over the course of the marriage we have incurred a bunch of medical bills, most of which have been paid. But there is still about $2000 worth that have gone to collections. I know she is responsible for half of that, but I dont think she is working, and I know she cant pay. In order to pay them I decided to take a loan out on my 401k. So I gave her the form she needed to sign, and told her what it was for. This was over 3 weeks ago. Since then she wont answer my phone calls, and I have had not contact with her or the kids.
My friends and family are telling me to file for divorce and contest paternaty and walk away. Honestly I dont know if I can do that.
Any advice would be appreciated.