What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
After almost 2 long years of a nasty Divorce, it was granted Jan 2009. I have 2 weekends a month with my 4 yr old daughter, I live in San Diego and I drive all the way to LA to pick her up and bring her back.
My ex has lied to the Judge about money she makes, a new car, refused to provide medical, school and shot records to me ( I have 50% legal custody), not shown up for the visitaion pickups, moved in with a new boyfriend without telling me where my daughter lives and had her rights read to her by the Judge for contempt on a few of the above issues.
About 2 months ago, I petitioned the Courts to have my 4 yr old given her own Attorney because of mother's and attitude and lies, they agreed and issued her an older woman who is a former teacher and child Psychologist.
That is when the trouble started...
My ex was losing horribly bad in Custody Court, did not show up for 2 Court Ordered Mediations and was about to have half of her Physicaly Custody altered, when she called My daughter's Attorney and told her that I "must be molesting her" because her private parts were hurting. My ex made this accusation 3 days after I dropped my daughter off, but instead of taking her to the Doctor, she called the Attorney who immediately took my little girl to a Rape Crisis Center in a local Hospital, but then refused for her to be checked out for any abuse.. During the only interview that I and my daughter had with her Attorney, my daughter was being silly in the restaurant and kept pulling on the buttons of my dress shirt; the Attorney took that as an "odd closeness".. My daughter was also playing with my shirt, arm, watch, napkins and crayons.
In addition, my ex now has 2 people, a guy and his girlfriend, that have provided statements that I masterbated in front of her 2 years ago. The truth of the matter is, I met the woman at a bar and she gave me oral sex in the her car and then we went back into the bar. The man was the Bartender at the time, we were all friends, but now they are dating.
So, on March 9th, 2009, I have to drive to LA for an Ex Parte' Hearing that is asking me to cancel all visitations with my daughter, no more weekly phone calls to her, see a Psychiatrist, do a criminal background check and give up my 50 Legal Custody..
I cannot afford an Attorney, my ex has a high dollar one that her new boyfriend is paying for.. My ex wants me to forget all about my daughter and go away, she also has a 9 year old that I helped raise; her biological father was pushed out in a similar way 8 years ago, just without the allegations.
My ex is a Scientologist with an 8th grade education, never had a job and has always lived off of other people her whole life. I have a college education, professional..
Help me please...What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
After almost 2 long years of a nasty Divorce, it was granted Jan 2009. I have 2 weekends a month with my 4 yr old daughter, I live in San Diego and I drive all the way to LA to pick her up and bring her back.
My ex has lied to the Judge about money she makes, a new car, refused to provide medical, school and shot records to me ( I have 50% legal custody), not shown up for the visitaion pickups, moved in with a new boyfriend without telling me where my daughter lives and had her rights read to her by the Judge for contempt on a few of the above issues.
About 2 months ago, I petitioned the Courts to have my 4 yr old given her own Attorney because of mother's and attitude and lies, they agreed and issued her an older woman who is a former teacher and child Psychologist.
That is when the trouble started...
My ex was losing horribly bad in Custody Court, did not show up for 2 Court Ordered Mediations and was about to have half of her Physicaly Custody altered, when she called My daughter's Attorney and told her that I "must be molesting her" because her private parts were hurting. My ex made this accusation 3 days after I dropped my daughter off, but instead of taking her to the Doctor, she called the Attorney who immediately took my little girl to a Rape Crisis Center in a local Hospital, but then refused for her to be checked out for any abuse.. During the only interview that I and my daughter had with her Attorney, my daughter was being silly in the restaurant and kept pulling on the buttons of my dress shirt; the Attorney took that as an "odd closeness".. My daughter was also playing with my shirt, arm, watch, napkins and crayons.
In addition, my ex now has 2 people, a guy and his girlfriend, that have provided statements that I masterbated in front of her 2 years ago. The truth of the matter is, I met the woman at a bar and she gave me oral sex in the her car and then we went back into the bar. The man was the Bartender at the time, we were all friends, but now they are dating.
So, on March 9th, 2009, I have to drive to LA for an Ex Parte' Hearing that is asking me to cancel all visitations with my daughter, no more weekly phone calls to her, see a Psychiatrist, do a criminal background check and give up my 50 Legal Custody..
I cannot afford an Attorney, my ex has a high dollar one that her new boyfriend is paying for.. My ex wants me to forget all about my daughter and go away, she also has a 9 year old that I helped raise; her biological father was pushed out in a similar way 8 years ago, just without the allegations.
My ex is a Scientologist with an 8th grade education, never had a job and has always lived off of other people her whole life. I have a college education, professional..
Help me please...What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
