What is the name of your state? New Mexico
Yep. My husband's ex actually had it written into their divorce decree that she can come once a year to pay her respects to their deceased pet that is buried on the property. Not because she cares about the pet, but so she could use it as a form of control.
Now she calls or emails every few months demanding to come, makes arrangements, then doesn't show(thought I took care of that when we got her stuff out of here). So, can she be sent a registered letter stating that she gets one try a year? That if she makes arrangements and pulls a no-show - that's it until the following year? And that if she is so much as one minute late, the gate will be locked and she can try again the next year?
Or is my poor husband doomed to dealing with this forever because he wasn't specific enough in the decree?
It's cold and cruel, I know. I don't like that we have to resort to this, but the woman has psychological issues that make it impossible to handle any other way. We're both tired of her heaping her abuse on him, and we're trying to find ways to make it stop.
Yep. My husband's ex actually had it written into their divorce decree that she can come once a year to pay her respects to their deceased pet that is buried on the property. Not because she cares about the pet, but so she could use it as a form of control.
Now she calls or emails every few months demanding to come, makes arrangements, then doesn't show(thought I took care of that when we got her stuff out of here). So, can she be sent a registered letter stating that she gets one try a year? That if she makes arrangements and pulls a no-show - that's it until the following year? And that if she is so much as one minute late, the gate will be locked and she can try again the next year?
Or is my poor husband doomed to dealing with this forever because he wasn't specific enough in the decree?
It's cold and cruel, I know. I don't like that we have to resort to this, but the woman has psychological issues that make it impossible to handle any other way. We're both tired of her heaping her abuse on him, and we're trying to find ways to make it stop.