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When I was a stupid 18 year old (about 14years ago) I did a 'quicke' marriage to a boyfriend who was in the Marine corps so that he could get off base housing. He had told me that a lot of his friends in the corps 'married' a friend in order to get married benefits. We did not consider it a 'real' marriage and did not live together at the time (I didnt even like him all that much). I only even told about 2 of my friends.
We were given documents and told to file them with the court, which we never did, although, he mustve had to show the military something in order to get his off base housing. I never did then, and never have since, filed or claimed married status on ANYTHING or received any benefits relating to such.
We broke up several months after and I have not heard from or seen him since (as I said, about 14 years). I talked to a lawyer that same year and was advised that it could be annuled but I didnt have access to funds at the time. To be honest, I simply forgot all about it after that. I would have no idea where he is or what he is doing now. He was about 4 years older than me, and I would be amazed if he is not married (to someone else) by now.
I will be 32 in March and the problem is that I am now really getting married (in the UK) in June. A friend actually had to remind me of the 'marriage' years ago. I want to make sure my marriage in June is legally recognized in case we'd like to move back to the states.
Help!!!!!!
When I was a stupid 18 year old (about 14years ago) I did a 'quicke' marriage to a boyfriend who was in the Marine corps so that he could get off base housing. He had told me that a lot of his friends in the corps 'married' a friend in order to get married benefits. We did not consider it a 'real' marriage and did not live together at the time (I didnt even like him all that much). I only even told about 2 of my friends.
We were given documents and told to file them with the court, which we never did, although, he mustve had to show the military something in order to get his off base housing. I never did then, and never have since, filed or claimed married status on ANYTHING or received any benefits relating to such.
We broke up several months after and I have not heard from or seen him since (as I said, about 14 years). I talked to a lawyer that same year and was advised that it could be annuled but I didnt have access to funds at the time. To be honest, I simply forgot all about it after that. I would have no idea where he is or what he is doing now. He was about 4 years older than me, and I would be amazed if he is not married (to someone else) by now.
I will be 32 in March and the problem is that I am now really getting married (in the UK) in June. A friend actually had to remind me of the 'marriage' years ago. I want to make sure my marriage in June is legally recognized in case we'd like to move back to the states.
Help!!!!!!
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