ForMyMother
Junior Member
New Hampshire:
My father made a big mistake almost three years ago (Summer 2007). Now that he's miserable, he obviously wants to get divorced but is holding off because I think he's afraid of getting taken to the cleaners.
My father makes around or above $150k a year.
The future ex-wife is almost 51 years old and is nothing but a HUGE liability. She doesn't have a career or a full time job, she has two YOUNG children (ages 10 & 12) who split time between her and one of her exes, she doesn't own anything significant (no property, no car, nothing), and she expects to have everything handed to her. This is her 4th or 5th marriage (I'm legitimately not sure on the number. I thought it was 4 but someone recently told me that this was the 5th). As you can tell by this, the woman is out of her mind. I totally understand why my father wants a divorce as he owns a nice / new house ($450k) and she has totally destroyed it with her two kids. They don't clean, they're loud, obnoxious, disrespectful, inconsiderate, you name it... As soon as they moved in, they thought the house was theirs and theirs only. The woman is THE laziest person I've ever seen in my entire life. Today is February 27th and there are still Christmas ornaments scattered all over the room where the tree was. My father claims he wants to see how long it takes for her to pick it up.
Is there any way he can walk out of this clean?
I'm pretty sure she's going to walk away with something but I want to make sure it's extremely limited. She doesn't deserve anything.
They were married in the U.S. Virgin Islands. My father told me that he hopes it's not valid but I think it is since it is a United States territory. He also did NOT have her sign a pre-nup. He claims that he has a written statement from her in an email but I don't think that an email holds any significant value in the court of law... then again, I'm not a judge.
Does anyone have any advice that I could pass on to my father?
I don't want to see undeserving people get handed a free ride.
My father made a big mistake almost three years ago (Summer 2007). Now that he's miserable, he obviously wants to get divorced but is holding off because I think he's afraid of getting taken to the cleaners.
My father makes around or above $150k a year.
The future ex-wife is almost 51 years old and is nothing but a HUGE liability. She doesn't have a career or a full time job, she has two YOUNG children (ages 10 & 12) who split time between her and one of her exes, she doesn't own anything significant (no property, no car, nothing), and she expects to have everything handed to her. This is her 4th or 5th marriage (I'm legitimately not sure on the number. I thought it was 4 but someone recently told me that this was the 5th). As you can tell by this, the woman is out of her mind. I totally understand why my father wants a divorce as he owns a nice / new house ($450k) and she has totally destroyed it with her two kids. They don't clean, they're loud, obnoxious, disrespectful, inconsiderate, you name it... As soon as they moved in, they thought the house was theirs and theirs only. The woman is THE laziest person I've ever seen in my entire life. Today is February 27th and there are still Christmas ornaments scattered all over the room where the tree was. My father claims he wants to see how long it takes for her to pick it up.
Is there any way he can walk out of this clean?
I'm pretty sure she's going to walk away with something but I want to make sure it's extremely limited. She doesn't deserve anything.
They were married in the U.S. Virgin Islands. My father told me that he hopes it's not valid but I think it is since it is a United States territory. He also did NOT have her sign a pre-nup. He claims that he has a written statement from her in an email but I don't think that an email holds any significant value in the court of law... then again, I'm not a judge.
Does anyone have any advice that I could pass on to my father?
I don't want to see undeserving people get handed a free ride.