I live in FL and have been married for 5 years. I recently decided to leave my husband. He does not want me to leave but knows I've made up my mind. We have 2 children together. He has asked me to not file any paperwork due to the fact that he is going to law school and knows the judge will order him to pay around 1000 a month in child support which he cannot afford. He says if the judge orders him to pay that much he will have to file bankruptcy and then will never be allowed to take the bar exam. He originally said he would give me 500 a month but now says he cannot give me anything. I do not want to ruin his future career ( he's already a police sergeant) or make things nasty between us and I know that in the long run it will benefit my children if he becomes a lawyer, but I just don't know if I can make it on my own financially without his help. He has also said that if he has to file bankruptcy he will "take me down with him" so I'll have to file also since we are married and half the bills would be my responsibility even though they are all in his name. I guess my question is, can he make me have to file bankruptcy also? Do you think it would be in my best interest to wait the 4 years to file or just file now to enforce a child support order?
Thanks so much for any advice!
Tammy
Thanks so much for any advice!
Tammy