Criminal activity is criminal activity. If he's a notary, he'll probably lose his license, as well.
Then don't file. No one can tell you what to do. But, then, it probably isn't a good idea for a child to be learning morality from a criminal, either.
You can choose to ignore it (in which case it will continue) or you can choose to put a stop to it by filing a police report. Or you can ask him nicely to stop.
Pick one.
Well, I told my attorney what happened at that time. She wanted to pursue it in family court, but that did not happen. She did not suggest a police report. I made a choice by being complacent, I guess.
Maybe I justify to myself that it is because of my child that I didn't pursue it, but she loves her mom and lives with her. She would certainly hear about it. I know her mom has bad judgement (technically criminal judgement in this situation) and my child lies to me at times to protect her because she is old enough to know it (almost 13). So I think she might be angry with me if I did something to hurt her mom. She is not generally an angry kid. She really wants everyone to like her. Even though that is not a legal issue, it is an important one.
I agree with both your first point and second. I am vulnerable to further impropriety by not adressing it. Don't mean to hijack here. Maybe I will start another thread.
I am not leaving out any info that I can think of or making it up. As far as I know I am not guilty of anything, just divorced. I figured it was my best option after my ex left with another guy (and stole my car). I was apparently too boring. Spent too much time on the computer