legallurker
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What is the name of your state? My friend is in WA.
The story is long & sordid, so I'm posting a modified version of an email I received from friend's mom on behalf of friend as a summary version. Please take a look & advise on what, if any, recourse my friend has in this situation. I can give more details if necessary, but mainly I'm concerned about what transpired in court on Monday & if there is anything friend can do about it. Thanks in advance for your assistance.
Hey everyone,
Because I know you have all been worrying, wondering and/or praying or all, I am briefly going to tell you what happened in the last couple of days.
We recessed on Thursday after two days of trial. We had Friday, Saturday and Sunday to prepare for Monday. Lots of ground was covered and we thought we were in good shape and had our ducks in a row.
However, much to our disappointment and disbelief, our attorney was a little tipsy and couldn't put two questions together in a row. I (friend's mom) was second on the stand and she tried to hold it together, but the other attorney kept objecting because she was asking very leading questions, which she didn't need to do. I knew what I wanted to say. The more he objected, the more confused she got.
She finally gave up on me and put friends husband on the stand. She was going to question him at length and get some of the documentation entered into evidence that we needed to make a decent case. She tried to ask him about his financial declaration, had lots of fudging going on, she couldn't remember what was the matter with declaration. I guess at some point she decided she was doing more harm than good and quit.
And she did that about 30 min too early, the other attorney jumped up and said he was ready to close. This effectively kept her from recovering any ground on Tuesday morning.
Friend read a wonderful statement in lieu of a closing argument. She maintained her dignity, self-respect, her moral fiber and feels really good about how she comported herself. And the judge saw her character, displayed in many ways throughout the entire trial, he even acknowledged it in the beginning of his decision.
Nonetheless, the law is the law and since our attorney left all our fine and perfect evidence sitting in boxes in the court room and never offered them for exhibits, his hands were tied. He made repeated references throughout his decision that because nothing was offered into evidence to offset, justify or in any way allow him to make a different determination, he had to go by the law.
Bottom line, he gave Friend $500 a month for 30 months (spousal maintenance), and half of what was left in the money market, about $1500. She has to give now-ex-husband about $40,000.
It's nice that the judge seemed genuinely distressed that this was the best he could do and well, life goes on and we have moved on with it.
Love to you all, Friend's Mom on Friend's behalf
The story is long & sordid, so I'm posting a modified version of an email I received from friend's mom on behalf of friend as a summary version. Please take a look & advise on what, if any, recourse my friend has in this situation. I can give more details if necessary, but mainly I'm concerned about what transpired in court on Monday & if there is anything friend can do about it. Thanks in advance for your assistance.
Hey everyone,
Because I know you have all been worrying, wondering and/or praying or all, I am briefly going to tell you what happened in the last couple of days.
We recessed on Thursday after two days of trial. We had Friday, Saturday and Sunday to prepare for Monday. Lots of ground was covered and we thought we were in good shape and had our ducks in a row.
However, much to our disappointment and disbelief, our attorney was a little tipsy and couldn't put two questions together in a row. I (friend's mom) was second on the stand and she tried to hold it together, but the other attorney kept objecting because she was asking very leading questions, which she didn't need to do. I knew what I wanted to say. The more he objected, the more confused she got.
She finally gave up on me and put friends husband on the stand. She was going to question him at length and get some of the documentation entered into evidence that we needed to make a decent case. She tried to ask him about his financial declaration, had lots of fudging going on, she couldn't remember what was the matter with declaration. I guess at some point she decided she was doing more harm than good and quit.
And she did that about 30 min too early, the other attorney jumped up and said he was ready to close. This effectively kept her from recovering any ground on Tuesday morning.
Friend read a wonderful statement in lieu of a closing argument. She maintained her dignity, self-respect, her moral fiber and feels really good about how she comported herself. And the judge saw her character, displayed in many ways throughout the entire trial, he even acknowledged it in the beginning of his decision.
Nonetheless, the law is the law and since our attorney left all our fine and perfect evidence sitting in boxes in the court room and never offered them for exhibits, his hands were tied. He made repeated references throughout his decision that because nothing was offered into evidence to offset, justify or in any way allow him to make a different determination, he had to go by the law.
Bottom line, he gave Friend $500 a month for 30 months (spousal maintenance), and half of what was left in the money market, about $1500. She has to give now-ex-husband about $40,000.
It's nice that the judge seemed genuinely distressed that this was the best he could do and well, life goes on and we have moved on with it.
Love to you all, Friend's Mom on Friend's behalf