What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New Jersey
I just caught my wife in an affair. Myself and my three teens screamed at her to get out of the house, and she just dug in.
Any tricks to get her out? She left once and returned an hour before the locksmith.
Um, cheating is a very bad thing... but it's usually a symptom that something is very wrong with the marriage. Most marriages recover from affairs.
But y you and your children were screaming at her to leave? You involved your children in this? They are her children too. Getting them involved at this level can cause you problems later down the road. Problems with doing things to turn the children against their mother. The affair is an issue between adults, husband and wife.
Until you are divorced and there is an agreement on who will leave the house, or until a judge orders one of you out…. It’s both of your house. You cannot kick her out and you cannot get your children to help you attack her to get her to leave.