Getting his retirement?

[Rhiannon10]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
California
I have been physically separated from husband for almost 11 years. He is about to start receiving his retirement pension from his union job while we were living together years ago. I assumed I would receive a part of it or the monthly payments but found out the only way I can get it is by divorcing him. I am the beneficiary. another thing is he is about to lose his property to the guy he bought it from but he has a lawyer to fight it. it is a long story but I would also share in this property once he gets his case settle in court.
What I am asking is if this is true that I would have to divorce him to get my share of his retirement?

 

[mistoffolees]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
California
I have been physically separated from husband for almost 11 years. He is about to start receiving his retirement pension from his union job while we were living together years ago. I assumed I would receive a part of it or the monthly payments but found out the only way I can get it is by divorcing him. I am the beneficiary. another thing is he is about to lose his property to the guy he bought it from but he has a lawyer to fight it. it is a long story but I would also share in this property once he gets his case settle in court.
What I am asking is if this is true that I would have to divorce him to get my share of his retirement?

What do the plan documents say?

 

[Ohiogal]

You would need to divorce him. His retirement HE would receive. Why do you believe you are automatically entitled to any of it?