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09-21-2009, 03:16 PM
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CT.
I AM IN THE PROCESS OF FILING MY OWN DIVORCE,UNCONTESTED..WIFE OF 1 1/2 YRS,,WHO MOVED BACK TO VT,, AFTER I FOUND OUT SHE HAS BEEN CHEATING ON ME FOR 4 OF THE LAST 7 YRS TOGETHER,,IS REQUESTING
$3500.00 FOR A VEHICLE,,STATING THAT IF THIS DOESNT HAPPEN,, I WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR 10 YRS ALIMONY??..1/2 OF MY 401K??AND POSSIBLE OTHER THINGS?..HOW MUCH MORE CAN BE TAKEN FROM ME??
ALL RESPONSES WILL BE GREATFULLY APPRECIATED,, THX,,,MH |
09-21-2009, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by tygerr2001  What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CT.
I AM IN THE PROCESS OF FILING MY OWN DIVORCE,UNCONTESTED..WIFE OF 1 1/2 YRS,,WHO MOVED BACK TO VT,, AFTER I FOUND OUT SHE HAS BEEN CHEATING ON ME FOR 4 OF THE LAST 7 YRS TOGETHER,,IS REQUESTING
$3500.00 FOR A VEHICLE,,STATING THAT IF THIS DOESNT HAPPEN,, I WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR 10 YRS ALIMONY??..1/2 OF MY 401K??AND POSSIBLE OTHER THINGS?..HOW MUCH MORE CAN BE TAKEN FROM ME??
ALL RESPONSES WILL BE GREATFULLY APPRECIATED,, THX,,,MH | How are you filing an uncontested divorce if you don't agree to everything she is requesting? Sorry but it looks like this will be contested. She is entitled to half the marital assets that accrued during the marriage, and half the debt that accrued during the marriage.
You were married for only 1.5 years but together for 7. You got married AFTER she started cheating on you?
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09-21-2009, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted by tygerr2001 What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CT.
I AM IN THE PROCESS OF FILING MY OWN DIVORCE,UNCONTESTED..WIFE OF 1 1/2 YRS,,WHO MOVED BACK TO VT,, AFTER I FOUND OUT SHE HAS BEEN CHEATING ON ME FOR 4 OF THE LAST 7 YRS TOGETHER,,IS REQUESTING
$3500.00 FOR A VEHICLE,,STATING THAT IF THIS DOESNT HAPPEN,, I WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR 10 YRS ALIMONY??..1/2 OF MY 401K??AND POSSIBLE OTHER THINGS?..HOW MUCH MORE CAN BE TAKEN FROM ME??
ALL RESPONSES WILL BE GREATFULLY APPRECIATED,, THX,,,MH | The strategy is to tell you she want's the moon believing that you're dumb enough to give it to her without a fight. |
09-21-2009, 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Ohiogal How are you filing an uncontested divorce if you don't agree to everything she is requesting? Sorry but it looks like this will be contested. She is entitled to half the marital assets that accrued during the marriage, and half the debt that accrued during the marriage. | She's also not likely to get 10 years of alimony on a 1.5 year marriage. | |
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