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My wife and I are in the prelimanary stage of preparing for our divorce. Currently we are seperating our assets like respectful adults that we are? I am using the tried and true, always successful method of 50% for her, 50% for me. Guess what? we have a problem Houston. I forgot that maybe she didn't want me to enjoy my 50% of he OUR 401K, imagine that? so I kindly brought it to her attention and also let her know it's so much easier to be a nice human. She stated "Oh!, I forgot about the $49,000 in my 401k account, again, imagine that? How do I get proof that this 401K account exists, because I know it does. when I cordially ask my wife for the 401k statement she replies I don't have any records of this account in which Nordstroms has so graciously been depositing money into each month. I have asked Nordstrom for this record and have been told "NO"do not have to give you the confidential information that pertains to this account. Step two, Can I get access to this account? what are other avenue I need to pursue?
Thanks! by the way, this is a little in left field but I feel it's appropriate in this case. I learned a valuable lesson in life from my Father many moons ago it goes like this,
" Never **** in your own mess kit" I just want to be the Nice guy, thats all. Gee! Golly!can I get an "oogalee googalee"Good neighbor Seriously, forgive the nonsense, it's the only thing that keeps me sane?
Thanks a Million! I respect your time. Demigod- OUT.
My wife and I are in the prelimanary stage of preparing for our divorce. Currently we are seperating our assets like respectful adults that we are? I am using the tried and true, always successful method of 50% for her, 50% for me. Guess what? we have a problem Houston. I forgot that maybe she didn't want me to enjoy my 50% of he OUR 401K, imagine that? so I kindly brought it to her attention and also let her know it's so much easier to be a nice human. She stated "Oh!, I forgot about the $49,000 in my 401k account, again, imagine that? How do I get proof that this 401K account exists, because I know it does. when I cordially ask my wife for the 401k statement she replies I don't have any records of this account in which Nordstroms has so graciously been depositing money into each month. I have asked Nordstrom for this record and have been told "NO"do not have to give you the confidential information that pertains to this account. Step two, Can I get access to this account? what are other avenue I need to pursue?
Thanks! by the way, this is a little in left field but I feel it's appropriate in this case. I learned a valuable lesson in life from my Father many moons ago it goes like this,
" Never **** in your own mess kit" I just want to be the Nice guy, thats all. Gee! Golly!can I get an "oogalee googalee"Good neighbor Seriously, forgive the nonsense, it's the only thing that keeps me sane?
Thanks a Million! I respect your time. Demigod- OUT.