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My husband and I have had problems for 5 or 6 years. I have told him on several occasions that I want to get separated/divorced, but he refuses to agree. He has stated that if I ask him again, he will quit his job(a good job), and drink himself to death.(he has been sober for 14 years) He has also told me that my even talking about divorce is too stressful for him, and that I am "killing him". I am a stay-at-home mom. We have a house, and 2 children. I am worried that I have the choice of my kids not having their father, or being basically held hostage to the marriage. He controls all the money, and so I have no money for an attorney.
My husband and I have had problems for 5 or 6 years. I have told him on several occasions that I want to get separated/divorced, but he refuses to agree. He has stated that if I ask him again, he will quit his job(a good job), and drink himself to death.(he has been sober for 14 years) He has also told me that my even talking about divorce is too stressful for him, and that I am "killing him". I am a stay-at-home mom. We have a house, and 2 children. I am worried that I have the choice of my kids not having their father, or being basically held hostage to the marriage. He controls all the money, and so I have no money for an attorney.