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hencas
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What is the name of your state? missouri
hi,im new to this and never done something like this before and feel kinda weird about it,but im in need of some serious help,hope someone can help me please!!i dont know where to even start,well ive been with my husband for 8 years 6 years married,things have been rocky from the beginning and hopeing things would change,we are in the process of buying a house,etc..and we have land which will be included in the loan land home,we have been paying on this land for a little over a year now and been working very hard on it,my husband is a truck driver and is only home like 4 days a month,so i pretty much take care of most things...when he is home he dont wanna do anything,so anyway the loan is almost done,we put 5,000 down already. going thru fha which is required,no work has been started yet but getting close,so im very scared,the loan is only in his name,but the title is suppose to be in both,so they say,we are fighting all the time,im very unhappy,but feel ive gone to far to give up,i have 2 children,they are his step children..well i just dont know what to do,ive worked so hard on this land and getting this loan,almost every bit of my social socurity goes towards the land in some sort of way,out buildings,chicken house,fenceing,riding lawnmower,etc.....ive also made my husbands credit in good standings just to get the loan,so ive done alot....well as i stated im very unhappy,he mentally and physically abuses me,i must be crazy to think he will change,so what shall i do,the loan is only in his name,we put 5,000 down already,ive done everything to get the loan,if i cancel wont i loose the moneycause its a manufactured land home and been aproved,if i go thru with it,it being only in his name,except the title mabie,i know when he gets angry he will tell me to get out,he will think it is his home only and he has the right,does he?if i got a divorce would i get the home?i only bring in 1100 a month,between child support and social socutity,but my mom lives with us,she brings in 600 a month..i have 2 children,he doesnt,but he brings in like 2400 a month,i need to know what to do,i really dont want to loose the land and house,cause of everything ive done,but dont wanna be unhappy and scared all the time either.i dont even know if i made any since or not on this,hope someone can guide me in the right direction,what can i or can not do???thanks so much
casey-missouri
hi,im new to this and never done something like this before and feel kinda weird about it,but im in need of some serious help,hope someone can help me please!!i dont know where to even start,well ive been with my husband for 8 years 6 years married,things have been rocky from the beginning and hopeing things would change,we are in the process of buying a house,etc..and we have land which will be included in the loan land home,we have been paying on this land for a little over a year now and been working very hard on it,my husband is a truck driver and is only home like 4 days a month,so i pretty much take care of most things...when he is home he dont wanna do anything,so anyway the loan is almost done,we put 5,000 down already. going thru fha which is required,no work has been started yet but getting close,so im very scared,the loan is only in his name,but the title is suppose to be in both,so they say,we are fighting all the time,im very unhappy,but feel ive gone to far to give up,i have 2 children,they are his step children..well i just dont know what to do,ive worked so hard on this land and getting this loan,almost every bit of my social socurity goes towards the land in some sort of way,out buildings,chicken house,fenceing,riding lawnmower,etc.....ive also made my husbands credit in good standings just to get the loan,so ive done alot....well as i stated im very unhappy,he mentally and physically abuses me,i must be crazy to think he will change,so what shall i do,the loan is only in his name,we put 5,000 down already,ive done everything to get the loan,if i cancel wont i loose the moneycause its a manufactured land home and been aproved,if i go thru with it,it being only in his name,except the title mabie,i know when he gets angry he will tell me to get out,he will think it is his home only and he has the right,does he?if i got a divorce would i get the home?i only bring in 1100 a month,between child support and social socutity,but my mom lives with us,she brings in 600 a month..i have 2 children,he doesnt,but he brings in like 2400 a month,i need to know what to do,i really dont want to loose the land and house,cause of everything ive done,but dont wanna be unhappy and scared all the time either.i dont even know if i made any since or not on this,hope someone can guide me in the right direction,what can i or can not do???thanks so much
casey-missouri