What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New York
To whom it may concern:
My family and I two years ago moved up to New York from Florida. I have 2 daughters, 17 and 16. After purchasing a house 6 months later my wife said that she wanted a divorce. We've been living in the house since. She has now told me and have mede the girls come to me and say that if I don't move out thjey will move back down to Florida. Neither one of my girls want to move back but feel that they will be pressured into this move. If I move out is that considered desertion? secondly, is there any way that I could have a letter written stating that I will move out only on the the condition that I'm doing this for my girls and that if she wants a divorce I'll file the documentation but only on the condition that she can live ion the house till the girls graduate and thereafter the house is put up for sale. I'm being very honest, there has never been any verbal, physical or emotional abuse from me. When we sold our house in Florida back in 2006 we had moved in with her parents and in the winter of 2006 I first moved to New York to start my job and also look for a house while my wife and girls stayed back in Florida till the school year ended. By June of 2006 I found a house, placed a deposit on the house, put the deposit down on the house and purchased the house. The one problem I have now is I got talked into putting my Mother-in-Law and me on the morgtage. This was pushed to me by my wife, my mother-in-law and her son, who by the way is an attorney. They said it would be better off for Melissa and I because it would help us out with taxes since my Mother-in-law is in her late 70's. I'm very frustrated and very confused. My wife is 44 and I just turned 60, that right there had me starting to think whether or not this was all planned. When something liek this happens everything can go through your thoughts, and this is just one of them. Since there was no physical or any abuse what so ever at all during these times, and the only reason of an answer that I'm getting is, I can't do this anymore, that's it. So now I'm really getting worried and concerned that if I leave as asked, which by the way I do not want ot leave, and my girls are forced to gpo back to Florida, which they do not want to do, what are my options, what can I do as a parent first?, and as a husband? Would appreciate any assistance possible.
Thank you for listening.
Bart Salerno
To whom it may concern:
My family and I two years ago moved up to New York from Florida. I have 2 daughters, 17 and 16. After purchasing a house 6 months later my wife said that she wanted a divorce. We've been living in the house since. She has now told me and have mede the girls come to me and say that if I don't move out thjey will move back down to Florida. Neither one of my girls want to move back but feel that they will be pressured into this move. If I move out is that considered desertion? secondly, is there any way that I could have a letter written stating that I will move out only on the the condition that I'm doing this for my girls and that if she wants a divorce I'll file the documentation but only on the condition that she can live ion the house till the girls graduate and thereafter the house is put up for sale. I'm being very honest, there has never been any verbal, physical or emotional abuse from me. When we sold our house in Florida back in 2006 we had moved in with her parents and in the winter of 2006 I first moved to New York to start my job and also look for a house while my wife and girls stayed back in Florida till the school year ended. By June of 2006 I found a house, placed a deposit on the house, put the deposit down on the house and purchased the house. The one problem I have now is I got talked into putting my Mother-in-Law and me on the morgtage. This was pushed to me by my wife, my mother-in-law and her son, who by the way is an attorney. They said it would be better off for Melissa and I because it would help us out with taxes since my Mother-in-law is in her late 70's. I'm very frustrated and very confused. My wife is 44 and I just turned 60, that right there had me starting to think whether or not this was all planned. When something liek this happens everything can go through your thoughts, and this is just one of them. Since there was no physical or any abuse what so ever at all during these times, and the only reason of an answer that I'm getting is, I can't do this anymore, that's it. So now I'm really getting worried and concerned that if I leave as asked, which by the way I do not want ot leave, and my girls are forced to gpo back to Florida, which they do not want to do, what are my options, what can I do as a parent first?, and as a husband? Would appreciate any assistance possible.
Thank you for listening.
Bart Salerno