What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Kansas. My wife and I have been married for 5 years. We have a 2 year old son. My wife wants the divorce. We started the paperwork 2 weeks ago. Trying to do everything civil. We each have our own lawyers. Last week, I received a text from an anonymous person with info that my wife is having an affair. I had my suspicions. The kicker is my wife and I work for the same company, she is the executive assistant to my boss. She is having the affair with my boss, which is her boss also. If this is true, this would be the 2nd time she has had an affair. She had an affair 3 mos. into our marriage that I found out about by an anonymous letter sent to my work. I should have run then!! By the way, I called the hotel where they were seen as a couple (with my son) and confirmed they were registered. Question..should I hire a PI to get positive proof...what type of lawyer would I need to go after my boss or to protect my job? Thank you for your advice!What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?