What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? I married husband #1 in January 1985, in Oklahoma City, OK. Seperated in 1986, have had contact once in 1990, when he stated he was filing for divorce. Married husband #2 in February 1999, in Kansas City, KS. Seperated in 2001 and have had no contact since. Have recently talked to husband #1 and have found there was never a divorce. What is going to be the best way to dissolve both marriages.