What is the name of your state? SC
First, here is the background links for my previous relevant posts:
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=352308
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=351453
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=360004
Just a little more background:
My dear stbx abusive butthole husband is now claiming that he "borrowed" more than 65k in the last year from various people in the community... NOT financial institutions, but from the "Arab" community. I do believe that these people will "document" these imaginary loans. This in my opinion is clearly an attempt by him to retain the 40k plus that we have in equity in the marital home.
My question is: (and I know it's only a guess..) Will these "loans" be considered marital debt since I had no prior knowledge of the loans or where any of that money went? I never signed any documents or saw any documents pertaining to loans from his friends or family...
How can I prove that this money NEVER actually entered our household? Our bank statements definately NEVER had these kinds of deposits. Just how much stock will a judge put into "personal" loans?
Our next step is mediation and I would like to know what to expect and how much I should dispute.
Oh and just as a side note for comic relief... stbx's attorney brought a flowerpot similar to the one stbx slammed into my windshield as I was attempting to escape on the night of the DV incident to show the judge how "light" it was. She really chewed him out for this one. It was hysterical to watch him turn 15 colors of red.
Thanks in advance for any insight you can offer...
SusieWhat is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?
First, here is the background links for my previous relevant posts:
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=352308
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=351453
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=360004
Just a little more background:
My dear stbx abusive butthole husband is now claiming that he "borrowed" more than 65k in the last year from various people in the community... NOT financial institutions, but from the "Arab" community. I do believe that these people will "document" these imaginary loans. This in my opinion is clearly an attempt by him to retain the 40k plus that we have in equity in the marital home.
My question is: (and I know it's only a guess..) Will these "loans" be considered marital debt since I had no prior knowledge of the loans or where any of that money went? I never signed any documents or saw any documents pertaining to loans from his friends or family...
How can I prove that this money NEVER actually entered our household? Our bank statements definately NEVER had these kinds of deposits. Just how much stock will a judge put into "personal" loans?
Our next step is mediation and I would like to know what to expect and how much I should dispute.
Oh and just as a side note for comic relief... stbx's attorney brought a flowerpot similar to the one stbx slammed into my windshield as I was attempting to escape on the night of the DV incident to show the judge how "light" it was. She really chewed him out for this one. It was hysterical to watch him turn 15 colors of red.
Thanks in advance for any insight you can offer...
SusieWhat is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?