Husband forcing me and 5yr old and disabled mother to leave the home.

What is the name of your state? North Carolina

I have a Husband that is a great Husband and we love each other dearly when we aren't arguing. He can only go for about a week and he will say things to get me started in an argument. I have since learned to keep my mouth shut to prevent anyting and taking the mental abuse without defending myself.

He gets in these rages where he gets upset and tries to make me say something so he can blame the argument on me. I don't respond, but that makes him even more angry. He always tells me that I have to leave and so does my disabled mother and 5 year old daughter.

My question, can he make me leave? I am currently unemployed and seeking employment. But is there any suggestions or advise anyone could give me to help deal with this situation until I am financially able to leave. I have no family that I could stay with till I get on my feet alone.

He already has not allowed my son to come home from summer vacation with his natural father because he found some power tools missing after my son had left. (Not that he took them or that he took them with him to his fathers) He called the police and accused my son, knowing that his daughter has stolen things from myself, neighbors, friends and school that we know of. But not once did he suspect her. He despises my son.

Sorry to have to go to so much detail, but I m in doire need of advise. I would really be greatful.
NCGirlUSA

[dakoto70]

Is he the only one on the lease? Mortgage? What ever? and from the sounds of it he sounds like a jerk and you should leave him any way. Although I don't know why you would allow him to treat your son this way and still stay with him.

If he is the only person on the lease or what ever than yes he can make you leave but I am not sure of the time frme he has to give you? Something along the lines of a 30 day notice. But I could be wrong and I am sure someone will help us out on this one.

You said:

"I have a Husband that is a great Husband ..."

Then you said

"He gets in these rages where he gets upset and tries to make me say something so he can blame the argument on me. I don't respond, but that makes him even more angry. He always tells me that I have to leave and so does my disabled mother and 5 year old daughter."

and then,

"He already has not allowed my son to come home from summer vacation ...He despises my son."

This doesn't sound like a very "great husband" to me. It's up to you whether or not you want to live like this, but here's a good site for infor on divorce/separation etc in NC.

[url]http://www.ncdivorce.com/[/url]

Good Luck!

[Bigfoot]

Contact your county dept of social services. County services can tell you your options so that you are prepared in the event that you and your child are locked out of your home. If you don't know who to contact on the county level, look at the NC Dept of Health and Human Services website: [url]http://www.dhhs.state.nc.us/.[/url] The telephone number for the Division overseeing Women/Infant and Children is 919-733-2973.

Don't delay, expecting things to get better. There's a greater chance that things won't and you and your child's life are endangered.