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EndOfMyRope
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I have been going thru a divorce for a year now. My wife lied to me , cheated on me, filed for divorce on my birthday and took our daughter and moved out. I live in a no fault state(Indiana) so none of that really matters.
All of our joint credit cards were paid off. We have a house that is worth 50,000$ We still owe 41,000$ on the house and 8,000$ on a second mortgage so the house is pretty much worthless as an asset in this case. It would not be profitable to sell the house so I chose to keep it since she left and it is the only home I have.
The big hold up in this case is her debts. She has spent 12,000$ on collectables over the years that is in her name only. They insisted I take on half of this debt but I could not get a loan for this amount. I offered them half of my pension instead which is of equal amount to the amount they wanted but they refused it over and over. All they want from me is cash that I dont have.
I have lost my vehicle, my daughter and my wife but this does not stop them. I have no money left and am grasping at straws.
I have perfect credit but I dont have the collateral to get a loan of this amount.
Angry that I wont agree to their terms they now want me to pay all the debt plus all attorneys fees. 14,000$. Every time they say they are willing to settle we cancel the hearing and meet and they change thier minds and walk out. The trial has been cancelled 4 times now. I want to go to court and take my chances with the judge since I have nothing left to lose but my lawyer does not seem to want to listen to me. It is too late and I do not have the money to get another lawyer as it seems he doesnt have my best interests at heart.
I dont know what to do next, if you have any advice I would appreciate it, thanks. Indiana
All of our joint credit cards were paid off. We have a house that is worth 50,000$ We still owe 41,000$ on the house and 8,000$ on a second mortgage so the house is pretty much worthless as an asset in this case. It would not be profitable to sell the house so I chose to keep it since she left and it is the only home I have.
The big hold up in this case is her debts. She has spent 12,000$ on collectables over the years that is in her name only. They insisted I take on half of this debt but I could not get a loan for this amount. I offered them half of my pension instead which is of equal amount to the amount they wanted but they refused it over and over. All they want from me is cash that I dont have.
I have lost my vehicle, my daughter and my wife but this does not stop them. I have no money left and am grasping at straws.
I have perfect credit but I dont have the collateral to get a loan of this amount.
Angry that I wont agree to their terms they now want me to pay all the debt plus all attorneys fees. 14,000$. Every time they say they are willing to settle we cancel the hearing and meet and they change thier minds and walk out. The trial has been cancelled 4 times now. I want to go to court and take my chances with the judge since I have nothing left to lose but my lawyer does not seem to want to listen to me. It is too late and I do not have the money to get another lawyer as it seems he doesnt have my best interests at heart.
I dont know what to do next, if you have any advice I would appreciate it, thanks. Indiana