i need help fast plz

[i_need_help]

What is the name of your state? texas.




i need some help quick. let me tell you a lil about my self. im 18 years old, i just got out of tyc/ texas youth commission// or prison for minors what ever you want to call it. Anyway i have been with this girl for about 4 years prior to the marrige, well ive been out for 6 months married to the girl for 3, and it was the biggest mistake i have ever made she is bossy and controling, she wont let me go any where with out a million and one inquries about where im going who im going with oh and if i forget to tell her good bye or give her a hug and a kiss she will follow me to where ever im going yelling and causeing a scene about it. any way my question is what do i do i think i want a divorce. but i dont have a lot of money and it is very difficult to find a job since im on parole. some one plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[heartbroken11]

If you just got out, she may be displaying behaviour like this because she is angry with you for being gone so long. You have to admit, and I am not being mean, but you left her for a long time. Maybe she did some things while you were gone that she is not proud of? You both need to talk these things out before you rush into divorce. Try asking a friend to be nuetral and mediate between you so that you can find out what is bothering her, and then you can explain that how she is treating you is not exceptable. You need to get used to being out and let yourself know that you are ok, and things happen. You are not a bad guy. She may be feeling this from you also. I wish you luck!

[nessalexislina]

Hey, I was living in Killeen, TX from '02 to '04. I was miserably married the whole time and I was active duty Army. So I understand how you're feeling, believe me. I'm not too sure about how much a divorce would cost you, but I here in Massachusetts I'm only paying $215 cause they only charge you for the filing fee. And I'm probably getting the $215 waived since I have such a low income. You should see if that's how it is there. If you two don't have children, then the divorce should be a pretty simple one. You can get info on fees from a courthouse. Just make sure that you really want this divorce before you put in for it. Maybe you need to tell her how you're feeling cause that's what spouses are there for. You never know what might happen if you guys have a heart to heart about it all. I wish you the best. Take care.

[steveatx]

Originally Posted by i_need_help

What is the name of your state? texas.




i need some help quick. let me tell you a lil about my self. im 18 years old, i just got out of tyc/ texas youth commission// or prison for minors what ever you want to call it. Anyway i have been with this girl for about 4 years prior to the marrige, well ive been out for 6 months married to the girl for 3, and it was the biggest mistake i have ever made she is bossy and controling, she wont let me go any where with out a million and one inquries about where im going who im going with oh and if i forget to tell her good bye or give her a hug and a kiss she will follow me to where ever im going yelling and causeing a scene about it. any way my question is what do i do i think i want a divorce. but i dont have a lot of money and it is very difficult to find a job since im on parole. some one plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Get the divorce.