What is the name of your state? Illinois
My divorce decree states that I must give my "ex" a specific dollar amount of my 401(k). My divorce attorney does not complete QDRO's but she can outsource it for a cost of $1000 which I don't have. I have been divorced for nearly 2 yrs and have asked my ex several times to have his attorney complete the QDRO form in order for him to get his portion of my 401(k). I finally called my ex's attorney who said that she will complete the process but I have to give her the QDRO form.
I was able to obtain a copy of an Illinois QDRO form but it doesn't stipulate an exact amount only calculations and percentages. Is there a form that specifies an exact amount?
Also, I was the one who initiated the divorce so is it my responsiblity to have the QDRO form completed or my ex? It doesn't seem fair that I should have to pay for the QDRO process and then have to give him part of my 401(k) especially since he didn't have one at the time of our divorce.
My divorce decree states that I must give my "ex" a specific dollar amount of my 401(k). My divorce attorney does not complete QDRO's but she can outsource it for a cost of $1000 which I don't have. I have been divorced for nearly 2 yrs and have asked my ex several times to have his attorney complete the QDRO form in order for him to get his portion of my 401(k). I finally called my ex's attorney who said that she will complete the process but I have to give her the QDRO form.
I was able to obtain a copy of an Illinois QDRO form but it doesn't stipulate an exact amount only calculations and percentages. Is there a form that specifies an exact amount?
Also, I was the one who initiated the divorce so is it my responsiblity to have the QDRO form completed or my ex? It doesn't seem fair that I should have to pay for the QDRO process and then have to give him part of my 401(k) especially since he didn't have one at the time of our divorce.
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