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I am 32 and have been married to my husband for 8 years, we have 2 small children, 4 and 6.
I did not work for 4 years while my children were younger. I have now started a new job, less than 6 months. My husband, told me he no longer loves me. I got depressed, I saw a doctor and the doctor put me on anti-depressants, now my husband keeps telling me that I am crazy and that I will lose my children if I cause any problems. I and my children are now living with my parents. My husband does not want me to file for divorce. He says that if I do, I am going to "screw" things up for him. He wants us to be civil. In the meantime, he is removing my name from all our bank accounts, and his medical insurance. A friend told me I should be concerned. That my husband is trying to cheat me out of any type of support or settlement. I thought he was watching out for me and our children. I don't have money for an attorney. I need to find an apartment, and the one car we had in our family, my husband kept. I don't know what to do. I am now scared that I was dumb to believe him and now there is nothing I can do to get any type of settlement or support from him for me and my kids. I am working, but it is not a job that pays much money since I was out of work taking care of my children and I do not have a college education. Is it too late, now that he has removed me from bank accounts and is in the process of removing me from medical insurance, to be able to get a reasonable settlement for me and our children? No one has filed for divorce yet.
Also, do you have any ideas where I can find an attorney that will take this case for not too much money. I can use any advice from your experiences.What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?