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renee1
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What is the name of your state? KY
I'm divorcing my husband after one year of marriage. We have a child. The reason I'm divorcing is that he has to pay CS to another woman for another child and the amount is too much. The BCSE somehow found out he has veterans benefits so now they want to take that. That was the only thing that was helping us to keep our same lifestyle. So I'm not going to put up with having to be poor just because my husband made the mistake of having another child.
With that said I'm going to call a lawyer this week to get a consultation. Few questions.
1. How did BCSE find out about veterans benefits when he didn't tell them about them? Just curious.
2. Should I get a divorce and not agree upon any CS amount and let BCSE take my husband to court? Or should I agree to something with him. In that case instead of wage withholding wouldn't he just be sending me a check? Or could I ask for wage withholding myself?
3. Will my son get substancially less money than his other son due to the fact that he wasn't the first CS order in place?
4. With only being married one year could I ask for alimony?
5. Also in the experiences of some of the people here how often do wives leave their husbands due to this situation? Is it pretty common?
I'm divorcing my husband after one year of marriage. We have a child. The reason I'm divorcing is that he has to pay CS to another woman for another child and the amount is too much. The BCSE somehow found out he has veterans benefits so now they want to take that. That was the only thing that was helping us to keep our same lifestyle. So I'm not going to put up with having to be poor just because my husband made the mistake of having another child.
With that said I'm going to call a lawyer this week to get a consultation. Few questions.
1. How did BCSE find out about veterans benefits when he didn't tell them about them? Just curious.
2. Should I get a divorce and not agree upon any CS amount and let BCSE take my husband to court? Or should I agree to something with him. In that case instead of wage withholding wouldn't he just be sending me a check? Or could I ask for wage withholding myself?
3. Will my son get substancially less money than his other son due to the fact that he wasn't the first CS order in place?
4. With only being married one year could I ask for alimony?
5. Also in the experiences of some of the people here how often do wives leave their husbands due to this situation? Is it pretty common?
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