International Divorce

[KConnorSD]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California

8 years ago I was living in London, England, and my then boyfriend and I came back to my family's home in California to be married. I returned to London to live with him afterwards.

2 years later, family emergencies brought me back to live in the states. He stayed in England, we visited each other as often as we could, but after so many years we have both decided that our marriage and relationship has become more of a friendship, and we've happily agreed to file for divorce.

I'm not sure as the easiest and quickest way to get divorced from someone living overseas, and visa versa. We have no children, no mutual properties, and neither of us is contesting to keep any property or money that was not ours to begin with, or earned by ourselves when we were married. Literally, the most amicable and simple split you could possibly imagine.

I'd rather not hire any lawyers, and he feels the same. What's the best way to proceed?

Thanks!

 

[single317dad]

http://www.americanbar.org/groups/delivery_legal_services/resources/pro_se_unbundling_resource_center/pro_se_resources_by_state.html

http://www.americanbar.org/groups/delivery_legal_services/resources/pro_se_unbundling_resource_center/pro_se_resources_by_state.html

See the section for California, particularly the self-service centers.

http://www.courts.ca.gov/1241.htm

http://www.courts.ca.gov/1241.htm

There is a quick, easy way to get divorced called “summary dissolution.” You will not have to talk to a judge and you may not need to hire a lawyer. But remember: it is in your best interest to see a lawyer about ending your marriage. [...] Not everyone can get a summary dissolution. Most people have to get a regular divorce. This section will help you decide if you qualify for a summary dissolution and, if you do, how to file it.

 

[stealth2]

Either of you should be able to file in your respective locations as it seems you've both got residency where you currently live. I suggest some google time to see which one has an easier process.